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Are you trying to make a change in your life?
Anything you'd like to make happen, but find yourself stuck?
I can help.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>452</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-6346745362807975996</id><published>2012-02-16T09:54:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-16T09:57:06.256-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Making Art that Is Skilled'/><title type='text'>Five skills worth learning by Robert Genn</title><content type='html'>Five skills worth learning&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;February 14, 2012&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drawing mastery is understanding our world and understanding relationships. Contrary to popular belief, drawing doesn't mean trailing a line around things--it means seeing and reporting the relative distances between things. Drawing is a non-literary way of looking--and the skill to put down what you see in a two-dimensional way. Drawing mastery takes time and patience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Colour mastery involves knowing the properties of pigments, both in theory and as chemicals that have certain effects on one another when juxtaposed or mixed. Colour mixes that call for opposites on the colour wheel (complementary), as well as nearby on the colour wheel (analogous), or even so closely related as to appear to be one colour (monochromatic), make for lively and sophisticated effects. Colour mastery takes time and patience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Abstract understanding doesn't mean arbitrary sloshing and messing. Abstract art is controlled visual magic based on laws and methodology. Abstraction generally involves implication, suggestion and mystery rather that obvious description. Like a good poem, a good abstraction attacks your feelings before your understanding. Abstraction within realism adds zest and excitement to otherwise dull subject matter. Abstract understanding takes time and patience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Compositional mastery is a variety of traditional rules that beg to be broken. That's why composition is the queen of the skills. With composition you learn to control and play with the eye and move it within the picture plane. Composition includes the golden mean, the rule of thirds, big and small, dark and light, activation, circulation, focus, pattern, stoppage and a pile of other ploys, many of them developed by you and unique to yourself. Compositional mastery also means the avoidance of lineups, homeostasis, and a jungle road of potholes too tedious and disheartening to include in a 500-word letter. Learn to compose intelligently in your own vocabulary and you can get away with murder. Compositional mastery takes time and patience.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Emotional evolution means combining basic skills--such as the above--so that a unique voice and engagement occur. Finding yourunique voice may not be everything, but it's way ahead of whatever comes next. Emotional evolution takes time and patience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "Skills aren't enough on their own. Emotion has to come through. But when you've got the various skills sewn up, that's one thing you don't have to worry about." (Zoe Benbow)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: You can choose to make unskilled art if you wish. Unskilled art has its allure. The mere act of moving paint around can produce joy. Knowing little or nothing in the "how to" department and failing to inquire about it can probably make some people happy and may even be good for the soul. But if you persist in this direction, your unskilled work will be like that of so many others--and you will begin to bore yourself. On the other hand, the skills I suggest are worth learning for their own sake--and they will stand you well no matter what you try to do. They are hard won. We value most what is hard won--and so do many others. Skills worth learning take time and patience.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-6346745362807975996?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/6346745362807975996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=6346745362807975996&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6346745362807975996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6346745362807975996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2012/02/five-skills-worth-learning-by-robert.html' title='Five skills worth learning by Robert Genn'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2819086416944844239</id><published>2012-02-07T14:11:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-07T14:13:54.316-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='etc.'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Desire'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Motivation'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn on "What turns you on?"</title><content type='html'>What turns you on?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;February 7, 2012&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The business guru Peter Drucker admitted motivation was a sticky wicket. "We know nothing about it," he said. "All we can do is write books about it." Our own Resource of Art Quotations holds a huge variety of angles on the subject. Picasso, for example, felt it oozed from the world around us because of the variety of material at our disposal. He also felt it had something to do with "the passion we get from women."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wonder where that leaves the women. Do they get it from men?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cicero thought motivation was all about obtaining praise. Others suggest the big thing is desire, and I agree, but nobody seems to be able to properly define what desire actually is. Some cynical ones figure motivation is all to do with fear, poverty, hunger and pain. Ouch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fact is, when our lives are free of clutter and we're "rolling pure," the stuff that turns us on is found as easily as shells along a tropical beach. But there's more to it than that. We follow our particular noses. Some are in it for sentiments, others as salve for their "inner selves." Still others feel the need to dig deeply for universal meanings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Flawed though I may be, I've always trusted our universe. In the art department I'm looking for complexity, pattern, design, and just ordinary wonderful stuff to get the brush around. It seems to me that if deeper meanings are to be had, they'll somehow find a way to the end of the brush.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This naivety is not unique. It starts with what can only be called "love." Maybe that's where the women come in. Whatever, it's a growing love affair with a desirable and particular thing, often privately discovered and often from our youth. Specificity drives desire. Take, for example, the passion of many wildlife painters and illustrators of nature. Something to do with honouring--it's a high emotion that daily brings out the pencils and brushes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;PS: "Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly." (Stephen R. Covey)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: Give yourself permission to fall in love and you'll partake in the miracle. Life may not be fully understood, but art is one way we can try. Drawing, for example, is a flashlight on the path to comprehension. Trying to master colour is to flirt with the gods. Composition makes us one of them. It's quite a turn-on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But we artists needn't suffer the delusion that we're the only ones turned on. This morning I had a haircut and a beard trim in a beauty salon in Montego Bay, Jamaica. Accompanied by her own humming and singing, Murielle took her time and did a truly masterful job using only scissors, comb and a straight razor. Proud as rum punch, she kept admiring the two of us in the mirror. "My goodness I love cuttin' your hair, Mr. Bob," she said. "Come back tomorrow 'cause I need bad to dye it black." I'm thinking about it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2819086416944844239?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2819086416944844239/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2819086416944844239&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2819086416944844239'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2819086416944844239'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2012/02/robert-genn-on-what-turns-you-on.html' title='Robert Genn on &quot;What turns you on?&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2232625025478821826</id><published>2012-01-31T13:06:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-31T13:07:40.825-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Unleash Your Creativity'/><title type='text'>7 Ways to Spark Your Creativity</title><content type='html'>7 Ways to Spark Your Creativity&lt;br /&gt;Instant inspiration, courtesy of designer Anna Rabinowicz&lt;br /&gt;From the February 2011 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine&lt;br /&gt;Anna Rabinowicz&lt;br /&gt;Photo: William Abronowicz&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Read Not a Box, by Antoinette Portis&lt;br /&gt;A rabbit sits in a cardboard box and uses his imagination to transform it into a racecar, a mountain, a robot. The lesson? "Anything can be anything," Anna says.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Go outside&lt;br /&gt;Nature informs most of Anna's designs: "A pinecone, a caterpillar, some gnarled gourds from a pumpkin patch—the natural world is full of bizarre, beautiful stuff."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Start a collection&lt;br /&gt;Curating your own little exhibit of similar objects makes you more attuned to what's special about each one. "Try to figure out why the designers made the choices they did, and you'll get a peek into their creative process," Anna says. "I collect toothbrushes. They have to do something very specific—and it's not a very exciting something—but their simplicity is an opportunity for imaginative design."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Touch stuff&lt;br /&gt;Everywhere Anna goes, she picks up objects she sees. "I get acquainted with a thing's thing-ness. I experience it with my hands, not just my eyes."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Travel solo&lt;br /&gt;"Once in a while, go somewhere alone," says Anna. "It's much easier to experience everything around you and to cover lots of ground. I decided to be a designer at the top of the Antoni Gaudí cathedral in Barcelona, because I was so moved by the architecture." But you don't necessarily have to cross an ocean. "You can get inspired by traveling practically anywhere, as long as you're open to what you see."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Go analog&lt;br /&gt;"Don't check your e-mail when you're creating," Anna says. "Nothing earth-shattering is going to happen in an hour or two."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Grab every opportunity&lt;br /&gt;Hosting a group of friends? Make party favors. Received a gift? Write a handwritten note. "If you're having dinner at home tonight," Anna says, "why not make something you never made before?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unleash Your Creativity&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * A day in the life of a creative renaissance woman&lt;br /&gt;    * You don't need to be an artist to have imagination&lt;br /&gt;    * Where do poets get their inspiration?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read more: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Advice-to-Get-Creative-Designer-Anna-Rabinowicz#ixzz1l4X8E5UI&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2232625025478821826?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2232625025478821826/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2232625025478821826&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2232625025478821826'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2232625025478821826'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2012/01/7-ways-to-spark-your-creativity.html' title='7 Ways to Spark Your Creativity'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7906952292672208374</id><published>2012-01-26T13:13:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-26T13:14:20.720-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips to Get Moving On'/><title type='text'>6 Procrastination Busters</title><content type='html'>6 Procrastination Busters&lt;br /&gt;January 26, 2012 &lt;br /&gt;By LJ Innes&lt;br /&gt;Tips to Get Moving On&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The one thing a perfectionist and a lazy person have in common is procrastination. The perfectionist always wants to do it perfectly or not at all, and the lazy person just keeps putting things off. Believe it or not, both types of thinking can lead to procrastination which can eventually lead to feelings of being over-burdened, overwhelmed and even agitated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thomas Jefferson said, “Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.” By putting things off, you may be buying time in the present, but it may leave you scrambling later when more things pop up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are six procrastination busters that will get you moving when you need to so you can relax when you want to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Do just one thing. Procrastination can give you that anxious feeling, that leaves you staring at your “to do” list like a deer in headlights. Do just one thing on that list, even if it’s the smallest, quickest, most inconsequential thing on it. Crossing it off the list will give you that empowering rush of accomplishment, making you want to do more.&lt;br /&gt;“It’s all about distraction.” – Shyla ext. 5431&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Skip the commercials. You may reward a hard day at work with a trip to the couch to catch up on all the latest TV has to offer, but what about those commercials? Use commercial time to empty the dishwasher, take out the garbage or throw a load of laundry in the washer. When your show resumes, you can plop yourself down again and relax, and you’re still getting stuff done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Reward yourself. You and that chocolate chip cookie have been flirting with each other for hours. Bargain with yourself that you can eat that cookie, but only after you clean out your closet and box up some clothes for a local charity. After that, it’s all about you and the cookie. Enjoy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Turn up the tunes. As Madonna would say, “Dance and sing, everybody get up and do your thing.” Put on some loud music, something with a little kick to it that makes you move. No one has to know you danced with a vacuum. Two for one bonus: In a short 20 minutes, you can cross vacuuming and cardio workout off of that to do list.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Imaginary company. Pretend your new boyfriend just called from his car, down the street, and he’s got a friend with him. You’d be surprised what a motivator imaginary company can be. Plus, if real company shows up unexpectedly, you’re prepared.&lt;br /&gt;“Guilt is living in the past, anxiety is living in the future; live in the present.” – Blythe ext. 5339&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Clear your head. Moving at a snail’s pace? Can’t get motivated? When procrastination settles in, just go outside and take a short walk or drive, breathe in fresh air. Doing something as simple as getting out of your own head for a while can beat down that procrastination monster. Wipe the slate clean, and see all of your obligations in their true perspective and priority.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whether at work or at home, it’s worth it to try one or all of these 6 suggestions. Nothing feels better than getting things done.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7906952292672208374?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7906952292672208374/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7906952292672208374&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7906952292672208374'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7906952292672208374'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2012/01/6-procrastination-busters.html' title='6 Procrastination Busters'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7803357806383206737</id><published>2012-01-06T12:11:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-06T12:14:42.564-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My little black book'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn talks about the importance of journaling</title><content type='html'>My little black book&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;January 6, 2012&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like many artists, I've gone through periods of writing down fleeting thoughts in a little journal. Some of the entries are pretty personal--which I'll tell you about later.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right now we have a worldwide viral epidemic of "gratitude journaling." This is where folks put down a few nice things that happened during the day. A lot of the good stuff takes place under the covers at bedtime, and is not meant to be shared. As my daughter Sara says, "It's not a journal, it's a brain exercise." Fact is, there's considerable evidence it makes us into better people, maybe better artists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sara just closed out last year's Moleskine and started this year's. The Italian company that makes these beautiful books with ribbon bookmarks, elastic closures and acid free paper follows a tradition started in Paris about 1850 by a small stationery company that allegedly supplied Vincent van Gogh, Pablo Picasso, Ernest Hemingway, Oscar Wilde, and Henri Matisse. The celebrated Australian traveller and Songlines author Bruce Chatwin used the little books so voraciously that in 1986 he bought up all copies then available.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These books are more than journals. They're a way of life--key, says the Moleskine promo, to "culture, imagination, memory, travel and personal identity."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Understanding that we become what we think, advanced Moleskiners avoid three main negatives--nostalgic regret, adherence to outcome, and fearful anticipation. These sorts of thoughts, common to all humanity, are banned from the tiny pages. Proper Moleskiners stick to a positive, optimistic outlook.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I find mentioning things that no one else must know about, even if I have to erase it right after, to be particularly valuable. For example, last night I wrote, "Three square inches in the lower left centre of that 11" x 14" are rather excellent." But I wouldn't want this sort of flagrant boasting to get around. Keep it under your bonnet, eh? And even though I erased it right after, I wouldn't want my journal and all that positive erased info getting into the wrong hands.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "To lose a passport was the least of one's worries. To lose a Moleskine notebook was a catastrophe." (Bruce Chatwin)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: Painter Nicoletta Baumeister uses her journal for another purpose: "A poem, haiku or a small drawing at night has the effect of driving all other thoughts away. The narrowed focus and purity of intent creates a sense of calm after a day of supersaturated activity. It also affords feelings of satisfaction, job well done, if only in the tiniest work, so that I slip seamlessly into excellent sleep. Too many people out there have insomnia!" Baumeister does it again in the morning: "Gratefulness thoughts in the morning light are about the setting of the daily lens. What will we take in, what will we seek and what is today's sense of self? Feeling grateful puts my feet on solid ground, able to work out the next step; whereas, asking what I don't have sets my day on a frantic course."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Go here to see more of Genn's posts: http://clicks.robertgenn.com/love-anger.php&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7803357806383206737?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7803357806383206737/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7803357806383206737&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7803357806383206737'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7803357806383206737'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2012/01/robert-genn-talks-about-importance-of.html' title='Robert Genn talks about the importance of journaling'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8734073325052911248</id><published>2012-01-03T13:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-03T13:31:46.583-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Happy Holidays from Michael Larsen'/><title type='text'>A gift of words from SFWC Director and Founder Michael Larsen</title><content type='html'>Now a gift of words from SFWC Director and Founder Michael Larsen...&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;A  Holiday Wish List for Perfect Days&lt;br /&gt;If your days were perfect, what would they be like? They might include&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * waking in early morning light next to your beloved, passionate about pursuing your missions&lt;br /&gt;    * living as if every day were your last&lt;br /&gt;    * spending time with a family that is a source of love, renewal, encouragement, and wisdom&lt;br /&gt;    * having a home filled with love, light, color, art, books, and music that enlightens, entertains, and inspires everyone who enters it&lt;br /&gt;    * sharing simple, varied, beautiful, colorful, delicious, nutritious locally produced food&lt;br /&gt;    * filling the day with challenges that inspire your creativity&lt;br /&gt;    * loving what you do so much you don't notice the time&lt;br /&gt;    * learning about what excites you and you need to know&lt;br /&gt;    * striving to improve whatever you do&lt;br /&gt;    * seeing the value of people, information, and experiences to give them the attention they deserve&lt;br /&gt;    * staying informed about what's important&lt;br /&gt;    * transforming anger about problems into action&lt;br /&gt;    * laughing and making others laugh&lt;br /&gt;    * balancing desire and necessity; thought and feeling; serving others and yourself; screen time and the rest of your life; work, home, and leisure; planning, flexibility, and spontaneity&lt;br /&gt;    * putting short-term goals in the service of long-term achievements with enduring value&lt;br /&gt;    * having patience with yourself, others, and life's problems and obstacles&lt;br /&gt;    * being debt-free, meeting your obligations, and saving for the future you've planned&lt;br /&gt;    * exercising your mind and body&lt;br /&gt;    * renewing your sense of wonder at the beauty and grandeur of nature&lt;br /&gt;    * understanding your significance in 100 billion galaxies&lt;br /&gt;    * having a spiritual practice that brings you peace of mind&lt;br /&gt;    * celebrating your achievements&lt;br /&gt;    * expressing gratitude through giving and service&lt;br /&gt;    * making love as if it were the first time&lt;br /&gt;    * ending your day knowing you've done all you can as well as you can&lt;br /&gt;    * uninterrupted sleep that begins the moment you snuggle your beloved &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      We hope your days will be as close to perfect as you can make them during the holidays and the new year. Please feel free to share the list. I hope it inspires you and the people you love to make your own lists and share them. The list will always be a work in progress, and I'd like to learn from yours.&lt;br /&gt;Happy Holidays!&lt;br /&gt;Mike Larsen                                                          &lt;br /&gt;Michael Larsen-Elizabeth Pomada Literary Agents&lt;br /&gt;Larsenpoma@aol.com / www.larsenpomada.com&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8734073325052911248?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8734073325052911248/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8734073325052911248&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8734073325052911248'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8734073325052911248'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2012/01/gift-of-words-from-sfwc-director-and.html' title='A gift of words from SFWC Director and Founder Michael Larsen'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-5877296714799362327</id><published>2012-01-03T11:48:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-03T11:51:06.715-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Be loving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hopeful and optimistic'/><title type='text'>"Love and anger" by Robert Genn</title><content type='html'>Love and anger&lt;br /&gt;January 3, 2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During the past year, Canada's Leader of the Opposition, Jack Layton, died of cancer at the age of 61. In his final message Jack said, "My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we'll change the world."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These words resonated across our country. It has always struck me that both love and anger are two of the main motivators in the making of art. Both emotions can work equally well. It's just that love is so much the more pleasant of the two.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Discouraged early on by economic conditions, disabilities, contrarian parents, peer pressure, teachers or others, a few artists are able to fight the uphill battle to overcome or at least channel their anger. Daily they are driven to "show the world."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Other creatives take a more gentle, loving path. It can be a love of some particular someone, a family, a principle, a passion or a charity. It can be that peculiar and miraculous state of simply doing something for the love of it. Each work we produce is our very own baby brought into the world for a span that may extend beyond ours. It's been my observation that these main brands of working love can be bound together into a wholesome bundle where tangible, finished work is key to hope, optimism and a sense of well-being. "Work," said Kahlil Gibran, "is love made visible." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The finding of love within our work unlocks the studio and prompts the actions of hand and mind. The extraordinary prevails and even ordinary and well-trodden subject matter can be freshly explored and rejuvenated. One might even be blessed with the aura of popular greatness. "He alone is great," said Gibran, "who turns the voice of the wind into a song made sweeter by his own loving."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my last letter of the old year I mentioned the gentle productive hum of studios. Between the turning on and the turning off of the lights there's a span of privilege. Held steady by the gentle hand of love, we begin, we keep going, and we sign off. There may not be a higher calling.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "In the arts, as in life, everything is possible provided it is based on love." (Marc Chagall)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: One of the great features of studio life is the capacity for renewal. Daily love manifests itself and is a fairly reliable prod. Some projects can be measured in no time at all. Sometimes three or four projects can be performed and completed in a single day. Other projects progress over days or weeks, dependent on the uncanny sleep-work that lies between. "Love does not just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new." (Ursula K. LeGuin) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Current Clickback: "Occupy art studio" talks of the co-dependent nature of the artist and his studio. Your further input will be appreciated.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-5877296714799362327?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/5877296714799362327/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=5877296714799362327&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5877296714799362327'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5877296714799362327'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2012/01/love-and-anger-by-robert-genn.html' title='&quot;Love and anger&quot; by Robert Genn'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8481643958954687761</id><published>2011-12-13T13:01:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-13T13:03:58.080-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Build a Platform/Start Blogging'/><title type='text'>50 Simple Ways to Build Your Platform in 5 Minutes a Day by Christina Katz</title><content type='html'>50 Simple Ways to Build Your Platform in 5 Minutes a Day&lt;br /&gt;December 12, 2011  &lt;br /&gt;by Christina Katz &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing rules. Self-promotion drools. Isn’t this how most writers think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But as long as you view your writing as art and your self-promotion efforts as the furthest thing from art, your chances of ramping up a successful 21st-century writing career are going to remain slim to none.&lt;br /&gt;These days, there’s an art to writing and an art to self-promotion. From the moment you start putting words to the page, it’s never too early to start thinking about how you’re going to share them. And once you begin to see your writing and promotional efforts as equally artful, something wonderful starts to happen: You find readers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Books aren’t written overnight—they’re developed one day at a time. And it’s the same with our platforms, which comprise all the ways we make ourselves visible to our readers. The idea that you need a platform might seem overwhelming at first. But if you consistently take small steps to put yourself out there, before you know it, you’ll have built a strong, sturdy foundation for your work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, if you’re the kind of writer who prefers being read to being unknown (who doesn’t?), here are 50 quick, simple ways to launch your platform into action. Think of each small step as a giant leap toward finding readers—and a fun, rewarding opportunity to share your hard-wrought words with others.&lt;br /&gt;Listen &amp; Learn&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Find Your Keepers. Clarify the kinds of readers you want to connect with now, and you’ll be glad you did later. First, jot down a quick list of all the types of readers you’ve ever had. Now, decide which groups you want to stay connected with for the long haul, and make them your keepers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Start Surveillance. Google Alerts (google.com/alerts) can help you become practically omnipresent in only a few clicks. Take five to set up alerts to notify you when your name, articles, book(s), Twitter handle, site URL and/or specialty topics pop up online. When you’re alerted to people promoting your name, supporting your work or sharing your ideas, stick out your virtual hand and say, “Hey, thanks! I appreciate that.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Poll for Solutions. Ask questions. You’ll get answers. If you’re wondering which online photo hosting service to use, or if others are having the same server problems that you are, try posting the question on Facebook and Twitter. I do this often, and love coming back and reading what others have said. If it’s a decision you’re making, share which advice you followed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Show Respect. On social networks, follow and friend folks in your field whom you admire. Steer clear of anyone shifty, clingy or shilling stuff all the time. A good rule of thumb: Don’t promote or forward the causes of anyone online who you wouldn’t in regular life. It takes time to get to know people, but it’s worth it when your reputation is on the line.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Study the Competition. Jump on a search engine and type in the keywords that describe what you write about. See who pops up on your radar. Don’t be afraid of the competition; study your competitors. What are they doing better than you? Add what you learn to your to-do list.&lt;br /&gt;Create Context&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Introduce Yourself. Take a few minutes to write a brief bio you can use wherever your name appears online. Include your URL, relevant professional credentials, recent publications (online or off), significant self-published efforts and professional partnerships.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Show Yourself in Action. I’m willing to bet you have a whole bunch of photos of yourself out and about doing what you do. If some are shots of you writing, great. But even better if you have some decent-quality photos of you speaking, teaching a workshop, signing books or the like. Collect them, and use them to accompany your posts online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Post Ads and Affiliate Links. You need to make money to invest money in your platform, so why not make the most of the resources and tools you already like? You won’t get rich from affiliate revenue, but it can add up over the course of a year and cover some of your ongoing platform expenses. It takes minutes to post an ad or affiliate link on your website or blog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. Hold an Event. Have an event with a time limit (like one week only, or 30 days). Create whatever type of environment is appropriate for what you write—perhaps an activity where something has to be completed in a certain amount of time so there is a ticking-clock factor (think NaNoWriMo). Create an environment that draws your tribe in, helps people interact and get to know one another, and converts folks into loyal fans who will keep coming back for more. Dream something up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10 Grade Yourself. HubSpot makes free graders (grader.com) that can gauge the effectiveness of your website, blog, Google Alerts, Facebook page, Twitter account and more. Each grader takes less than five minutes to run. Do so periodically, and add its suggestions to your to-do list.&lt;br /&gt;Contribute Content&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11. Give It Away. Spread the word across your social networks for everyone to come and get whatever you can give for free. If you already wrote an article that you don’t plan to sell, why not give it away? Maybe you created something inspirational or uplifting. Give it away. People love free.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12. Brainstorm 20 Ideas. If you don’t constantly ask yourself what new ideas you have, half of them will get away. And then you’ll have to read your idea on someone else’s blog, or in a magazine or newspaper with someone else’s byline. That’s how the zeitgeist works. So get in the habit of writing down your ideas, perhaps in a special idea journal. Drain your brain into it five minutes at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;13. Put Your Best Forward. Make sure people who are just discovering your offerings can go straight to some of your best online writing that has passed the test of time. Otherwise it’s just going to get buried under your latest efforts. Most blogs have widgets that will do the rounding up for you. Create a way to send fans and followers straight to your best posts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;14. Recycle. Take a few minutes to pitch content you’ve already written to a new outlet. Can you find a blog, forum or association newsletter that might be interested in your topic? Put some of your old writing to work all over again for fresh eyes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15. Review Worthy Writers. Inquiring readers want to know what books you like and why. Briefly review books as you read them and post your insights on review sites (like GoodReads, Amazon.com and Red Room). For good karma, sing the praises of your all-time favorites, too.&lt;br /&gt;Cultivate Community&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;16. Prompt a Response. A prompt is a suggestive word or theme that cues an interactive response from others. It can be as simple as a photo, symbol or word, or as complicated as a riddle. When hosting an annual book giveaway, I asked a question each day for a month, and everyone who answered was entered in the drawing. Participants loved the prompt more than the free books. It’s a fun way&lt;br /&gt;to interact with your growing online community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;17. Take Five to Interact. Reply to commenters on your blog. Thank people who used your free content. Think of three people to appreciate for any reason at all. Spend a little bit of time with those who’ve gone out of their way to care about you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;18. Make an Engaging Offer. If you’re working on a project and you need people to get involved, offer something—say, a discount or kickback—to the first 50 who express interest. Create excitement for those who are willing to work with you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;19. Form Strategic Partnerships. Who do you want to partner with? Being friendly and helpful should have no strings attached—but true partnerships are mutually beneficial, formal agreements in which each party is hoping to gain something specific. List three likely partners and reach out to them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;20. Create a Quickie Blogroll. Make a quick list of writers you admire. Then search for links to their blogs or sites to create your blogroll. Position your blog as an inspiring resource by going for quality, not quantity.&lt;br /&gt;Be Authentic&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;21. Be Yourself. Advice that tells authors to act like brands encourages us to forget to act like regular people. But social media is made for people, not robots. The fact that you’re a writer and a parent or an uncle and a Packers fan or a vegetarian makes you interesting. Your readers and fans want you to be personable, not a one-topic ever-plugging broken record. Spend five minutes making a profile more you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;22. Put Passion Into Action. Let’s say you write literary fiction. Isn’t that harder to build a platform around? Nope. Take your passion online and put it to work. Don’t assume no one cares. Assume there are a million people out there like you, and start connecting with them. Take five to write a quickie mission statement about why you’re on fire about your topic. Reread it every time you get online. It will help focus your efforts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;23. Get Together. Let folks know that you’ll be speaking or signing or teaching (or whatever else you do) near them when you travel. Make yourself accessible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;24. Spark Conversations. Other people are just as passionate about your topic as you are. So get on Google, do a Twitter search, visit forums where your topic is trending and spend five minutes participating in a chat. If nothing is happening, strike up your own conversation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;25. Share the Journey. I bet you have a lot going on right now. Surely some of it is interesting. Or perhaps you have a fresh take on what you have on your plate that others would find humorous or refreshing. Update others on what’s happening right now. Don’t try to keep your ups and downs a secret. Curious fans love to be treated like insiders.&lt;br /&gt;Synergize Connections&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;26. Friend and Follow Media Pros. Track down media folks related to your career thrust, and friend and follow them on social networks. Never come on too strong. Just be laid-back and friendly. And if you have social-media clout, don’t be surprised if they’re looking for you, too. Influential people will come to you when your passionate action makes you stand out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;27. Say Thanks. In five minutes you could crank out a handwritten thank-you note, stick a coffee or book gift card in there, address and stamp it. Why not do this at least once a month?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;28. Articulate Your Allies. Who supports your work? Whose work do you champion? Identify someone you have mutually compatible goals with, and see how you can help each other. Suggest ways to cheer each other on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;29. Generate a Q&amp;A. Create a series of questions on a topic you find fascinating, and then get interesting people in your genre or area of expertise to answer them in any format: a video chat, a written Q&amp;A or an audio chat. It makes compelling content.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;30. Shake Things Up. Don’t be one-note. Stop agreeing with everyone about everything and take five minutes to form a rebuttal (without turning it into a rant). Take a dull topic and make it interesting by putting a new spin on it or taking a contrarian stance. Get people engaged in the conversation.&lt;br /&gt;Produce Yourself&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;31. Capture E-mail Addresses. Use a newsletter service or RSS feed service to create a place front and center on your site where folks can sign up to receive correspondence from you or to have your blog posts delivered to their inbox.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;32. Go Multimedia. Bring old content to life using fresh media. Spend five minutes practicing reading something you’ve written out loud into your smartphone. Or boil down a chapter or article into five tips off the cuff and record them unscripted. Let your words riff. Don’t try to make it perfect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;33. Ask for Feedback. To learn to do what you do better, get your audience involved. Create a five-minute feedback form and send it out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;34. Outsource Something. Take five to consider all the hats you wear: the creative, the closer, the perpetual student, the accountant, the publicist, etc. Identify a weakness that someone can help you with now. Then hire or solicit the support you need.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;35. Share More. One common mistake we make is slaving over our content to make it perfect, thinking that if we do, readers will come to us. But too often, no one comes! Work hard to maximize everything you write. I’ve counted 49 ways you can use the “Share This” button to buzz content you want to champion. Get this button for your blog and browser now.&lt;br /&gt;Publicize Yourself&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;36. Hunt and Answer. Don’t forget the traditional media. Answer media requests at Help a Reporter Out (helpareporter.com). In five minutes you can find and respond to at least one appropriate media request. Make a game of how fast you can weigh in. Every post is another way to get your name out there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;37. Grow Your List. Wherever you go, whatever you do, bring along your e-mail sign-up sheet on a clipboard. Even better if you can offer a benefit for signing up, such as a free story, checklist or special report. Never sell or share contact information.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;38. Think Ahead. What do you have coming up? Keep a list of any future events and publications on your blog, in your newsletter, on social media and in your e-mail signature. Update it often.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;39. Compartmentalize. Segment your e-mail lists by what folks need from you, not what you need from them. I wouldn’t send attendees of my Northwest Author Series the same correspondence that I send my former students or my e-zine subscribers. Each e-mail group gets its own type of correspondence. Reorganize your e-mail groupings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;40. Master the 5-Minute Release. Zoom in on the latest happenings, holidays and story hooks and tie your career news in with what else is going on in the world. Write five-minute mini press releases and send them out at least monthly. Short is good.&lt;br /&gt;Pay it Forward&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;41. Round Up Resources. Round up books, websites and other resources on topics related to yours and then add them to your home page. Be helpful to others, and they’ll send people to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;42. Boost Others. Help a fellow author or a first-timer buzz his outstanding new book, class, service or conference. If you’re a believer, become an evangelist. And if you really mean it, offer a testimonial.&lt;br /&gt;Why not?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;43. Offer Your Services. According to Gary Vaynerchuk’s book Crush It!, the best question you can ever ask on social media is, “What can I do for you?” Such a simple idea, yet so profoundly intelligent. Put it to work for you on a regular basis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;44. Be a Good Guest. Ask yourself the hard-hitting questions others don’t dare ask (but are dying to know). Now you have a compelling guest post to share on your “Freebies” page.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;45. Hit the Highlights. You don’t have to give the play-by-play after you attend an event. But why not share the best of what you noticed or learned? You can even go multimedia with your coverage. Have your camera, audio recorder and video recorder ready to grab snippets of live action to share with others who wish they could’ve been there.&lt;br /&gt;Strut your Stuff&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;46. Count Down to Every Launch. Do you have a book coming out? A new class? A new article in print? Make a big to-do about whatever you’ve got that’s new. Announce each launch without pressuring anyone to spend. The place where your service connects with your audience is the place where you create the synergy that fuels your future projects.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;47. Spiff Up What’s Old. Offer some kind of promotion to entice folks to your evergreen offerings. I offer a scholarship for two of my classes, and this always pulls in fresh interest in what I teach. A scholarship, a discount, two for one, refer-a-friend—any strategy that makes something old new again is a good one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;48. Make Merchandise. Don’t try to make money with every single thing you offer. Instead, let some of your offerings create buzz for your name using services like CafePress or Zazzle. A fan who likes what you do enough to wear your name on a product becomes a salesperson for your work. Create promotional offerings and put links to them on all the pages of your website. Why not?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;49. Sustain Yourself. Being active online calls for balance and patience. Clarify how and where you want to spend your energy, and filter out the rest until you can ride the net without too many wipeouts. Take five and describe exactly what you hope to accomplish in the future time you invest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;50. Break Out of Your Box. Ask yourself, “What would I create if I let myself create anything I wanted?” Let go of any old labels such as novelist, poet or journalist. What would you really get a kick out of writing, right now? Spend five minutes jotting down the truth—the whole truth and nothing but what really sounds fun. Your ability to break out of your own box will inspire others, so go for it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Raise your profile effectively to help land an agent (and book contract):&lt;br /&gt;Get Known Before the Book Deal&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8481643958954687761?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8481643958954687761/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8481643958954687761&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8481643958954687761'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8481643958954687761'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/12/50-simple-ways-to-build-your-platform.html' title='50 Simple Ways to Build Your Platform in 5 Minutes a Day by Christina Katz'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-6170759958574051288</id><published>2011-12-02T15:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T15:04:57.400-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Bring Meaning and Purpose Into Your Life'/><title type='text'>Follow Your Heart &amp; Make Your Dreams a Reality</title><content type='html'>6 Tips to Follow Your Heart &amp; Make Your Dreams a Reality&lt;br /&gt;By Chloe Park&lt;br /&gt;Are you seeking meaning, purpose or significance in your life, career, or both? Or maybe looking to make a change and find something that brings you closer to your true self? Here are six tips to get you started:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Ask yourself, what do you LOVE? What do you love doing? What comes naturally and easy for you? What traits do people compliment you on? What did you love doing when you were a child? When are you the happiest?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Get ready to say good bye to a lot of people and a lot of things. When you start living in alignment with your heart, in the beginning there will be an initial “falling away” of all those that are not in harmony with your heart’s resonance. It’s like this -- if for 21 years you lived without an epicenter and one day you realized your heart is now that -- imagine what that (at)tracts and (de)tracts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Make space for yourself. Make space to explore what it is you truly love and want to do. Whether that be in relationships, a profession, any aspect of life -- start with YOU and everything else will fall into place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Nurture your heart’s desires. Make time throughout your day to do something nice for yourself, to feel good, do something pleasurable, eat something nurturing, take a bath. Do something at least once a day that makes your heart feel happy. The more you tend to your heart, the louder and more vibrant it will be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Know the difference between your heart and your mind. These are two completely different centers within the body that with practice -- will become one as a harmonious voice. In Sanskrit, heart and mind are one in the same -- the word for it is manas. With the evolution of Western culture, we have now formed it into two separate words. Get to know yourself in the mind and in the heart. You’ll be surprised at what each is saying with each other and against each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. And most importantly, throughout this process -- DON’T JUDGE YOURSELF! That’s the #1 rule underlying all of this. Be honest with yourself of where you are at, without judgment, without criticism, without ignorance and without arrogance. Good for you for acknowledging the existence of your heart -- now it’s time to listen to it. Don’t be sad that you’ve been setting your heart to the side, be happy that you’ve remembered and awoken to this pulse! Have fun exploring your heart -- it’s an infinite abyss, I’ll tell you that much.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About Chloe Park&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chloe Park is an artist, healer and teacher. She is currently traveling the world to share her message: love and healing. She uses the medium of writing, craniosacral therapy, yoga and meditation to help all those along the path to find harmony between mind, body and spirit. Her intention with her writing is to offer Q and A for all those who are engaged in the dialogue. May we all wake up together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Website: chloeparkhealing.com&lt;br /&gt;Facebook: chlodactle&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-6170759958574051288?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/6170759958574051288/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=6170759958574051288&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6170759958574051288'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6170759958574051288'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/12/follow-your-heart-make-your-dreams.html' title='Follow Your Heart &amp; Make Your Dreams a Reality'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1775631970943173127</id><published>2011-12-02T14:19:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T14:20:36.339-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Manifest What You Want'/><title type='text'>Create a Dreamboard</title><content type='html'>Create a Dreamboard to Manifest What You Want!&lt;br /&gt;December 2, 2011 &lt;br /&gt;By Psychic Yemaya&lt;br /&gt;Make Your Dreams a Reality&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Roll up the Law of Attraction, arts and crafts, and meditation and you have DREAM BOARDS! I love this process and use it several times a year, and it works for me. So I’m going to share my secrets with you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Start with poster paper, at least 16 X 24. Choose a color that best represents to you what “energy” you need to manifest these desires, red for action, passion, and speed; pastel greens and blues if you need calm, clear, and serene energies; or go bold, powerful and divine with gold or purple!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Chose those goals that you are working towards, be realistic, keep it to a few, and be willing to do the actions and footwork to manifest them as well. Look for the more spiritual goals to take on, yet don’t be afraid of asking for what you need, a car, a new place to live, love…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Gather the other supplies; scissors, glue, glitter, colored pens, stickers, as well as all the images that represent what you want to “pull” into your life. I like to browse the Internet for images, surf through magazines, or actually add things like sand from the ocean, or ticket stubs for plays, or leaves from my favorite nature walk… if those things help you to visualize what you want, then make them a part of your Dream Board.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Set yourself up with your supplies, and then put on some music that you feel will move you forward towards your goals. Create sacred space around you by doing a prayer or meditation that asks for divine guidance in this creation and the actions you are taking to manifest a new energy into your life!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Figure out the “time frame” of this board’s quest. I usually do one board from spring to fall, but you can do them over any amount of time, one year, three months, two full cycles of the moon, from New Year’s Day to Mid Summer. Your choice… be realistic about how much time the actions you need to take to meet the divine half way!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Now be mindful of what should be at the center of your picture. What is the main focus, or the “beginning” point of your journey? Now slowly and with great thought and intent add each element, and then begin to artistically connect and beautify each section or area until you feel it represents the important things you want to manifest over the time you have chosen, make it fun to look at.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Now hang it someplace where every time you see it, you think, “Yes, it is my WILL to manifest these things into my life.” Be willing to do prayer or meditation at least twice a week where you visualize yourself WITH those things in your life, and be sure that you are willing to offer up kindnesses to the universe in exchange for those gifts!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Be positive in order to attract positive energy!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1775631970943173127?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1775631970943173127/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1775631970943173127&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1775631970943173127'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1775631970943173127'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/12/create-dreamboard.html' title='Create a Dreamboard'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7615765040160089536</id><published>2011-11-28T12:08:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-11-28T12:08:34.945-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Colson Whitehead: How to Write and the Art of Writing</title><content type='html'>&lt;iframe width="459" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/vMFwW47HWCM?fs=1" frameborder="0" allowFullScreen=""&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7615765040160089536?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7615765040160089536/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7615765040160089536&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7615765040160089536'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7615765040160089536'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/11/colson-whitehead-how-to-write-and-art.html' title='Colson Whitehead: How to Write and the Art of Writing'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://img.youtube.com/vi/vMFwW47HWCM/default.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7887695374557052252</id><published>2011-11-28T12:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-11-28T12:06:55.601-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Are you called to write?'/><title type='text'>Rachelle Gardner asks "Are you called to write?"</title><content type='html'>Called to Write&lt;br /&gt;27 Nov 2011 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;SunlightI was having lunch with a writer friend of mine, and she didn’t seem like she was in the best place emotionally. “I’m starting to question whether this is really my calling,” she said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Why?” I asked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Because some days… it just isn’t fun.” (She said this with a straight face.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Hmm,” I said. “Is your marriage fun everyday?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Mostly, but…um, no.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Every time it’s not fun, do you question the entire marriage? Do you consider divorce?” I asked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Of course not.” She rolled her eyes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Well, I think your calling as a writer is similar,” I told her. “Every time it gets hard, you try and figure out if you’re doing something wrong, but you don’t question the whole darn thing. Every time you have an argument, the whole marriage doesn’t fall apart. Every time you have a bad day writing, you don’t have to question your entire calling.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“But…” she argued, “I thought God is supposed to give us passion for the things He calls us to?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Are you passionate about your husband?” I asked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Sure.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Everyday???”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She laughed. “No, not everyday. I get your point.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your calling to be a writer is bigger than a feeling that shifts with the wind. Once you decide that this is what you’re supposed to be doing, you have to avoid using every roadblock as a reason to question it. Instead, look at whether your calling is being confirmed.&lt;br /&gt;What are some ways to know you’re on the right track?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * You’re taking little baby steps toward possible publication.&lt;br /&gt;    * You know that your writing’s improving.&lt;br /&gt;    * Someone important has given you encouragement.&lt;br /&gt;    * Rejection letters are getting nicer and more complimentary.&lt;br /&gt;    * Your critique group is saying good things and they know what they’re talking about and you don’t think they’re blowing smoke.&lt;br /&gt;    * You’ve published something smaller like a magazine article or a contribution to a book.&lt;br /&gt;    * You’ve got an agent interested in your work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unless you have a total lack of anything resembling confirmation… stop questioning your calling and get to work!&lt;br /&gt; Have you questioned your calling as a writer? What led to the questioning? How did you resolve it?&lt;br /&gt;You are subscribed to email updates from Rachelle Gardner&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7887695374557052252?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7887695374557052252/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7887695374557052252&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7887695374557052252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7887695374557052252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/11/rachelle-gardner-asks-are-you-called-to.html' title='Rachelle Gardner asks &quot;Are you called to write?&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2682996684152700415</id><published>2011-11-05T13:22:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-05T13:25:33.118-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='From Vision to Reality'/><title type='text'>Create What You Want From a Thought</title><content type='html'>From Vision to Reality&lt;br /&gt;By LJ Innes&lt;br /&gt;Your Mind-Body Connection: Create What You Want From a Thought&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everything we want and desire begins with a single thought, but did you know that your thoughts are powerful enough to actually manifest those dreams of yours into reality? No, it won’t happen by twitching your nose like Samantha Stevens or coming up with some harebrained scheme like Lucy Ricardo. Using the power of visualization, through the power of your own mind, can really make things happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Visualization&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Visualizing something you want, has to first begin with recognizing what you already have or don’t have. It’s a starting point. You want to get to the finish line, therefore it makes sense that you have to start somewhere. By doing this you are aligning your unconscious mind with conscious thought and action, and now they are working together towards a common goal. That is how you form the mind-body connection.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may want a slimmer belly, for instance (something you want to lose) or you may want to add some muscles and definition to your arms (something you want to gain). Get your courage up and stand naked in front of the mirror. Zero in on that belly or those arms. Don’t be afraid, it’s just you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now your mind knows what your eyes see, and now you can start to take action. Through visualization and seeing yourself the way you’d like to be, maybe seeing yourself in those hot leather pants you bought last season, your daily thoughts and actions will work to help you get there. Unconsciously, you will be doing things to get you to your goal, exercising, eating right, etc. while being conscious of your body and visualizing that sexier you racing across the finish line to victory. Your vision soon becomes reality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Intention&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Visualization is a practice. Practice means reinforcement, repeating the exercise on a regular basis, constantly strengthening the mind-body connection. It only takes minutes to do, and aren’t you worth it? Make it a ritual, a ritual celebrating the god or goddess within. Say aloud, “I am special, and I deserve this. This is what I want, and I will make it happen.” Don’t get caught up in the words. Say something that has meaning for you, but give your intention a voice. In time, you will come to see, what you envisioned because you have done everything in your power to make it happen; you have mastered the mind-body connection.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“You manifest the thoughts and feelings that you put your attention on the most. When self doubt creeps in ask yourself if it’s possible that what you’re doubting may actually be possible; and if there is the slightest chance that it’s possible change your doubt to feelings of possibility.” – Rivers&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, I’m not going to say that if you’re a mousy brunette, you can visualize yourself as a fiery redhead, but that’s something you can always buy in a bottle. But within the physical realm, your body is yours to mold. Not everyone is a supermodel or a Mr. Universe. But what you feel inside, that you’d like to see outside, is attainable. Feeling good and positive on the inside definitely shows on the outside. It’s absolutely possible to go from visualization to realization.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“To manifest things in your life meditate on the feeling of already having it.” – Rivers&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2682996684152700415?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2682996684152700415/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2682996684152700415&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2682996684152700415'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2682996684152700415'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/11/create-what-you-want-from-thought.html' title='Create What You Want From a Thought'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-981705654094035954</id><published>2011-11-02T13:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T13:35:51.916-07:00</updated><title type='text'>LKWatts Confessions: Showing Versus Telling</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://lkwattsconfessions.blogspot.com/2011/10/showing-versus-telling.html?spref=bl"&gt;LKWatts Confessions: Showing Versus Telling&lt;/a&gt;: My internet problem still hasn't been resolved. However I do have the connection back this weekend but it's unlikely to stay on during the r...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-981705654094035954?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/981705654094035954/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=981705654094035954&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/981705654094035954'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/981705654094035954'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/11/lkwatts-confessions-showing-versus.html' title='LKWatts Confessions: Showing Versus Telling'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7664945470102373554</id><published>2011-11-02T13:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T13:31:12.483-07:00</updated><title type='text'>LKWatts Confessions: Do You Suffer From Commitment Phobia?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://lkwattsconfessions.blogspot.com/2011/10/do-you-suffer-from-commitment-phobia.html?spref=bl"&gt;LKWatts Confessions: Do You Suffer From Commitment Phobia?&lt;/a&gt;: Although the title of my post sound like an article from a health and relationships magazine, I can assure you it links into writing as well...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7664945470102373554?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7664945470102373554/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7664945470102373554&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7664945470102373554'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7664945470102373554'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/11/lkwatts-confessions-do-you-suffer-from.html' title='LKWatts Confessions: Do You Suffer From Commitment Phobia?'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-3904090939880437277</id><published>2011-10-25T10:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-25T10:43:10.114-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Don&apos;t Give Up'/><title type='text'>Keep moving forward, by Chuck Sambuchino</title><content type='html'>Keep moving forward. That is some of the best advice I can give you as you continue toward your writing goals. Keep moving forward. 2011 has been a strange year for me. The first eight months seemed to be filled with near-misses and small disappointments concerning my writing. Things just weren't going my way. I vented to those who would listen; my wife told me she could take no more so I should start complaining to the dog instead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But then, in the last 45 days, I've had a flood of good writing news. One thing I blogged about recently was that we sold Japanese rights to my Gnome Attack humor book. I also spoke about how, finally, after 10 months of talks, Sony fully executed the film option to the book and a feature-length screenplay is being written by professional scriptwriters I've never even met. And then there's amazing book deal news I can't fully talk about until 2012. All this happened in the past 45 days -- all because I kept moving forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can't control who will say yes to your work and when the timing will be right. You can control not giving up and always moving forward. Do that, and give yourself the best chance at success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until next time, good luck writing, agent hunting, and building your platform!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chuck Sambuchino&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Editor, 2012 Guide to Literary Agents&lt;br /&gt;Author, How to Survive a Garden Gnome Attack&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;literaryagent@fwmedia.com&lt;br /&gt;www.guidetoliteraryagents.com/blog&lt;br /&gt;@chucksambuchino&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-3904090939880437277?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/3904090939880437277/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=3904090939880437277&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3904090939880437277'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3904090939880437277'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/10/keep-moving-forward-by-chuck-sambuchino.html' title='Keep moving forward, by Chuck Sambuchino'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8312220900114585842</id><published>2011-10-25T10:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-25T10:39:55.791-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='MFA or bust?'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn on whether to get an MFA or Not</title><content type='html'>MFA or bust?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In response to a blog by Canadian artist Shary Boyle, someone with the avatar "Wrongtable" wrote, "I think that young people shouldn't hedge their bets by getting a Masters of Fine Arts. MFA doesn't imply talent. Talent comes from dedication and often desperation. Art funding spoon-feeds artkids, and the result is often wallpaper."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This response is typical and makes a comment on the changing face of professional arts. Common questions I'm asked these days are, "Should I go for an MFA?" and "Will any art degree help in my professional career?" The evidence is out there. There are now enough MFAs to fill the Astrodome, and most of them are doing anything but art.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our world is coming down off a prayer-rug that faced New York, London and Berlin. For decades, a lot of poor quality art has emanated from these centres, and the world of art schools and University art faculties have encouraged the worship. This mass delusion has undernourished countless echelons of idealistic "artkids." Sure, some make it, often for the reasons Wrongtable mentions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't get me wrong, academia has done a remarkable job of prying open the gates of imagination and broadening artistic literacy, but many of the artkids I'm talking to these days are asking for something else--how to create light, how to handle shadows, how to compose in a traditional manner, how to draw. "I want to draw like Ingres," said one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fact is, there's a rising class of home-workers and plein-air painters whose aims are the old fashioned ideas of quality and life-enhancement. Whether or not they have a MFA is immaterial. These days, people don't walk into galleries and ask if there's anything by someone with an MFA--although there are still many who would like to see it happen. Even in this distressing recession, art sales in many areas are strong, and young people who have dedicated themselves to developing advanced skills are thriving. In desperation, perhaps, these artkids decided to get good. Their reach may not always include the haughty halls of New York, London or Berlin, but they can be mighty celebrated out here in the backwaters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is this not enough? To be happy in our work and produce daily and freely? To be relieved of price one-upmanship, star-jealousy, the welfare of grants, and the poisonous-pens that hinder progressive careers?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Though we may hop in a small puddle, through the Internet we are still part of the great Brotherhood and Sisterhood and, who knows, little tads can sometimes--if they're not grabbed by the crows--become quite remarkable frogs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards, &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "If you fly with the crows, you get shot with the crows." (Old English idiom)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: Of all of the advice I've dished out over the years, perhaps the most effective and commonly remarked upon has been "Go to your room." Aspiring artists, credentialed or not, who find it within themselves to do this are the ones most likely to get the "talent." Sticky word, "talent." But it's out there. We see it every day. And it makes for a great life.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8312220900114585842?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8312220900114585842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8312220900114585842&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8312220900114585842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8312220900114585842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/10/robert-genn-on-whether-to-get-mfa-or.html' title='Robert Genn on whether to get an MFA or Not'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-9040730715262464554</id><published>2011-10-09T15:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-09T15:36:55.185-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='&quot;Follow your bliss.&quot; ~ Joseph Campbell'/><title type='text'>Mark David Gerson on "Steve Jobs's True Legacy"</title><content type='html'>Mark David Gerson&lt;br /&gt;Steve Jobs's True Legacy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"...the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do..."&lt;br /&gt;~ John 14:12&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Follow your bliss."&lt;br /&gt;~ Joseph Campbell&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Oh, give me land, lots of land under starry skies above / Don't fence me in."&lt;br /&gt;~ Cole Porter&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was packing up to leave Starbucks from an afternoon's writing on Wednesday when I heard about Steve Jobs's death. The news came to me in a terse email notice from the MyAppleSpace social network. The subject line read "Steve Jobs is dead."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Incredulous, I thought it was a hacker's prank. Only when I had double-checked the news against a reliable source could I bring myself to believe it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like many, I received and verified the news about Jobs on products he had pioneered. For me it was a MacBook Pro laptop and an iPhone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And like so many around the world, I was grief struck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here was a man who had spent most of his life bucking the system, never letting fear or conventional wisdom get in the way of what he knew to be right and true. Nor did he ever permit the legions of critics and pundits who declared him foolhardy and misguided to stop him from following the path he knew in his heart to be the correct one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Was he a saint? Hardly. Few geniuses are. Could he be cruel and cutting? Apparently so, for he is reputed to have had little patience for those who doubted or stood in the way of his passionate vision.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Few in the Western world remain untouched by that vision. Even those who swear they will never touch an Apple product have been affected by the revolutions in computing and music distribution that he incited.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did he change the world? Absolutely. Did he do it uncompromisingly and on his own terms? Undoubtedly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is his greatest legacy the products and software systems he engineered? Not hardly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Through the day or so following Steve Jobs's death, I was deeply moved, sometimes to tears, but the outpouring of love, respect and grief for this man. But by Friday night, as I scrolled through the unending stream of Jobs tributes and Jobs quotes in my Facebook news feed, something about it all began to trouble me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't get me wrong. The sentiments expressed were true and powerful, and I clicked the "like" button on many of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I began to wonder, as I read them all, how often we latch onto the words and lives of others as a way to avoid expressing our own words and living our own lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Back in 2006 while visiting Toronto, I was privileged to attend a Barbra Streisand concert. It was a performance that more than filled the city's vast Air Canada Centre. I wrote about that experience here two years ago, in a post titled Larger Than Life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Whatever you think of Barbra Streisand's talent or personality," I wrote, "when you are in her energy field, you touch that [limitlessness of your soul's natural state] and your soul cries out, 'Me too! That's who I am, too!!'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Here in the Western world, where we have been taught to play small, we transfer all of our natural desire for the fenceless world of a life lived large to our movie stars and sports heroes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"If we can't play out our own passion and power, we play it out through a celebrity cult that's no healthier than any other cult, one we also find in countries with charismatic leaders/dictators, in religions with unapproachable gods and in all situations where we abdicate the expression of our infinite nature to someone or something outside of ourselves."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How much of the grief for Jobs, I began to wonder, is not about the death of a brilliant man whose visions touched so many but about the death of a figure who publicly lived so much of the courage, vision, sense of purpose and uncompromising adherence to inner truth that so many of us shrink from in our own lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Steve Jobs was not unusual. We all have the same access to the same infinite pool of wisdom, courage, purpose and inner truth that he did...not to mimic his journey and follow his bliss, but to uncover and follow our own...wherever it might carry us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my novel, The MoonQuest, very much a metaphor for all our journeys, the main character, Toshar, is destined for a greatness he continues to resist. Yet destiny, as he is constantly reminded, is not cast in stone. There is always a choice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Every choice you have ever made," Toshar is told, "has led to this moment...of choice."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The power to choose is always ours," I wrote in Larger Than Life. "In every moment and through every situation, we're offered the opportunity to choose our greatness, our passion, our light."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The best tribute to Steve Jobs is to not quote his words but to live them, to not restate his wisdom but to find and write your own, to not honor the choices of his heart but to listen to and honor the choices of yours, to not look backward but to live in the present moment as you step forward into the next.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's time to awaken your vision. It's time to rekindle your passion. It's time to live your greatness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If that becomes Steve Jobs's legacy, the revolution in each of our lives -- and in the world -- will only have just begun.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-9040730715262464554?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/9040730715262464554/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=9040730715262464554&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9040730715262464554'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9040730715262464554'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/10/mark-david-gerson-on-steve-jobss-true.html' title='Mark David Gerson on &quot;Steve Jobs&apos;s True Legacy&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7876995008876265628</id><published>2011-09-19T09:42:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-19T09:45:50.489-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='most of us need to get a little distance from our lives'/><title type='text'>Why I Write Magical Realism</title><content type='html'>Why I Write Magical Realism&lt;br /&gt;Guest Blogger: Athol Dickson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Several novels back I decided to begin including magical realism in my work. I started writing about fires that burn in spite of floods, mysterious cures, angelic interventions, and flying artists. But I’m not a fantasy writer. My novels include magical realism because I want to write more realistically about this world, not because I want to escape it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Consider this famous quote from The Weight of Glory, by C.S. Lewis:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“It is a serious thing to live in a society of possible gods and goddesses, to remember that the dullest and most uninteresting person you can talk to may one day be a creature which, if you saw it now, you would be strongly tempted to worship, or else a horror and a corruption such as you now meet, if at all, only in a nightmare.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is Lewis describing the world as it actually is? Or is this merely a creative person’s whimsy, gross hyperbole with only a slight fraction of reality at the core?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I believe the quote is accurate, the way it’s accurate to say the sun is hot or rain is wet. And I’m certain Lewis intended it to be understood that way. So if I write a scene in which one character witnesses another’s transformation into something god-like or demonic, I’m not doing it because I want to create an escapist fantasy. I’m doing it because I want to describe life more accurately.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fantasy stories need no grounding in the reality of this world. They have holistic logical systems and realities that affect every aspect of their separate universes. They can describe things that never were and never will be on the earth, without direct attachments to the readers’ everyday existence. On the other hand, magical realism by definition remains tethered to the “real” workings of this universe. In fact I believe sometimes just a touch of the magical can make a story more applicable to a reader’s everyday existence than it would be otherwise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One classic example is in my favorite novel of all time, One Hundred Years of Solitude, where Gabriel Garcia Marquez describes a village stricken by “the insomnia plague.” This mass sleeplessness eventually affects the peoples’ memories. One man realizes he will soon no longer be able to function without help. He puts signs on everything to remind him what they are. Others do it too, and soon the signs are everywhere.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a while the people realize knowing what to call a thing does not mean one knows what to do with it. They begin to add instructions to the signs. A cow is for milking, and milk is for putting into coffee, and etcetera. At one end of their town, they even erect a sign which says, GOD EXISTS.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally into this “quicksand of forgetfulness” comes a gypsy with “a drink of a gentle color.” When that cure takes hold, one healed man’s “eyes became moist from weeping even before he noticed himself in an absurd living room where objects were labeled and before he was ashamed of the solemn nonsense written on the walls . . .”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;None of this is technically impossible of course, therefore it is not “fantasy” in the literary sense. It is only highly, extremely, vastly improbable; so completely unlikely to happen that we must at least call it “magical.” Yet Garcia Marquez wrings so much common sense from it, one cannot help but wonder if this “insomnia plague” might be something he has actually witnessed in the world—something not merely magical, but somehow also real.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps Garcia Marquez (the world’s best known author of “magical realism”) has simply written about life as it really is for the millions who are driven to mass insanity by labor on the treadmill of materialism, exhausted to the point of forgetting why they started running in the first place, yet goaded to keep at it by the omnipresent advertisements which remind them they need this thing and that thing in order to continue to forget who they really are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I write magical realism because some fires do burn in the midst of floods (think of hope when all seems lost), and all cures are essentially mysterious (no one can explain aspirin), and angels do occasionally intervene (according to the beggars in Mother Theresa’s Calcutta), and there are moments in the midst of work when artists sometimes fly (just ask one if you don’t believe).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, I write magical realism because most of us need to get a little distance from our lives to see them as they really are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;###&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Opposite of Art"&lt;br /&gt;Athol Dickson is a novelist, teacher, and publisher of the DailyCristo website. His novels blend magical realism, suspense, and a strong sense of spirituality. Critics have favorably compared his work to such diverse authors as Octavia Butler (Publisher’s Weekly) and Flannery O’Connor (The New York Times). One of his novels is an Audie Award winner and three have won Christy Awards. His latest story, The Opposite Of Art, is about pride, passion, and murder as a spiritual pursuit. Athol lives with his wife in southern California.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7876995008876265628?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7876995008876265628/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7876995008876265628&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7876995008876265628'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7876995008876265628'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/why-i-write-magical-realism.html' title='Why I Write Magical Realism'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-5088250917091346206</id><published>2011-09-15T10:13:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-15T10:13:40.831-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheryl's Musings: Writing Craft: Show-Don’t-Tell*</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://cherylreifsnyder.blogspot.com/2011/02/writing-craft-show-dont-tell.html?spref=bl"&gt;Cheryl&amp;#39;s Musings: Writing Craft: Show-Don’t-Tell*&lt;/a&gt;: Cranking through the rewrite of my current WIP, I found a lot of “telling” that I needed to replace with better writing. In the spirit of sh...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-5088250917091346206?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/5088250917091346206/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=5088250917091346206&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5088250917091346206'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5088250917091346206'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/cheryls-musings-writing-craft-show-dont.html' title='Cheryl&apos;s Musings: Writing Craft: Show-Don’t-Tell*'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-434583254330036375</id><published>2011-09-15T10:07:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-15T10:07:14.490-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheryl's Musings: Tuesday Ten: Character Quirks</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://cherylreifsnyder.blogspot.com/2011/07/tuesday-ten-character-quirks.html?spref=bl"&gt;Cheryl&amp;#39;s Musings: Tuesday Ten: Character Quirks&lt;/a&gt;: Geek confession: I used to play D&amp;amp;D (Dungeons and Dragons, for the uninitiated). In fact, I used to play another gaming system that rivaled...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-434583254330036375?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/434583254330036375/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=434583254330036375&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/434583254330036375'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/434583254330036375'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/cheryls-musings-tuesday-ten-character.html' title='Cheryl&apos;s Musings: Tuesday Ten: Character Quirks'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-5592801622075989509</id><published>2011-09-15T10:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-15T10:05:14.255-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheryl's Musings: Happy Valentine’s Day! …or: Ten Ways to Embarrass ...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://cherylreifsnyder.blogspot.com/2011/02/happy-valentines-day-or-ten-ways-to.html?spref=bl"&gt;Cheryl&amp;#39;s Musings: Happy Valentine’s Day! …or: Ten Ways to Embarrass ...&lt;/a&gt;: First: Happy Valentine’s Day! V-day happens to be my birthday…      Photo courtesy of terra in Virginia  from Flickr Commons   …and it start...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-5592801622075989509?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/5592801622075989509/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=5592801622075989509&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5592801622075989509'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5592801622075989509'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/cheryls-musings-happy-valentines-day-or.html' title='Cheryl&apos;s Musings: Happy Valentine’s Day! …or: Ten Ways to Embarrass ...'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7666502750902403957</id><published>2011-09-14T13:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-14T13:45:26.043-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheryl's Musings: Tuesday Ten: 10 Ways to Craft a Sense of Place</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://cherylreifsnyder.blogspot.com/2011/07/tuesday-ten-10-ways-to-craft-sense-of.html?spref=bl"&gt;Cheryl&amp;#39;s Musings: Tuesday Ten: 10 Ways to Craft a Sense of Place&lt;/a&gt;: You know the basics of setting creation: describe the who, what, when, and where of your character's surroundings. But how do you move beyon...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7666502750902403957?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7666502750902403957/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7666502750902403957&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7666502750902403957'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7666502750902403957'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/cheryls-musings-tuesday-ten-10-ways-to.html' title='Cheryl&apos;s Musings: Tuesday Ten: 10 Ways to Craft a Sense of Place'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-4704955205526085720</id><published>2011-09-14T13:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-14T13:33:36.093-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheryl's Musings: Tuesday Ten: Skills Every Writer Needs</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://cherylreifsnyder.blogspot.com/2011/09/tuesday-ten-skills-every-writer-needs.html?spref=bl"&gt;Cheryl&amp;#39;s Musings: Tuesday Ten: Skills Every Writer Needs&lt;/a&gt;: What does it take to succeed as a writer? The answer might surprise you. You don’t necessarily need an agent, although an agent can be helpf...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-4704955205526085720?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/4704955205526085720/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=4704955205526085720&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4704955205526085720'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4704955205526085720'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/cheryls-musings-tuesday-ten-skills.html' title='Cheryl&apos;s Musings: Tuesday Ten: Skills Every Writer Needs'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-6924829081307316761</id><published>2011-09-14T12:57:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-14T13:00:12.516-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='What can you do to avoid burnout?'/><title type='text'>The Art of Avoiding Burn Out</title><content type='html'>The Art of Avoiding Burn Out&lt;br /&gt;by Danyelle Leafty &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing can be exhausting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not the kind of exhausting that comes from running a marathon, but the kind that comes from squeezing your brain inside out as you search for the right words, the right descriptions, or the right threads of the story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Day after day. Week after week. Year after year.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do this long enough without taking care of yourself, and you risk burning out. Pulling your creative muscle until it cowers in the corner, whimpering. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not that, ahem, I'm doing I have ever done this, but there is a real danger in being over productive. In working too hard without giving your creative side enough time and space to recover. Setting and working toward your goals is a good thing--so long as you pace yourself realistically.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what can you do to avoid burnout? Especially if you have deadlines looming out at you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take a break.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Really. I know this may sound counterintuitive, but it works. Think of your creative side as a muscle. Let's say you want to get in shape well enough to run a writer's equivalent of the 3k. You wouldn't pound your body so hard in the name of getting there that you couldn't walk the next day, would you? And you wouldn't do that over and over and over again, would you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The human body is a marvelous thing that can take a lot of abuse, but eventually it gets tired and worn out if it's not allowed to recharge. Creativity is a lot like this. So taking a break isn't necessarily procrastinating, and it doesn't have to be unproductive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In fact, taking a break can be one of the most productive things you do for yourself and your creativity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The key is in figuring out what kinds of activities allow your creative muscles a chance to relax, to heal, and to rejuvenate. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some things you can do every day that can help prevent burn out include:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Exercise: That's right. Taking care of your body is an excellent burn out preventative. Doing meditative exercises like yoga or tai chi can help even more.&lt;br /&gt;    * Eat right: You are what you eat. If you eat nutritious foods and appropriate serving sizes, your body will feel better and so will you.&lt;br /&gt;    * Get enough sleep: If your body is anything like mine, it's going from the time you wake up until you go to bed. It doesn't function well if you don't get adequate rest, which will in turn affect your ability to think, cope with stress, and be creative.&lt;br /&gt;    * Manage your stress levels: The first step is being conscious of where your stress levels are at. It's a good idea to figure out what people/things/situations raise your stress levels so you can come up with coping strategies that allow you to lower your stress levels and relax.&lt;br /&gt;    * Managing your world perceptions: A lot of times, how we see the world directly impacts how we react to it. Learning how to see the world (and people) in a more positive light can help you feel better and not get burned out so quickly.&lt;br /&gt;    * Managing your self perception: How you see yourself will have a direct impact on your mental health and creativity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Other things that can help help replenish your creative wells:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Get inspired through music, art, and anything else that feeds your creativity.&lt;br /&gt;    * Go for a walk: Sometimes it helps to change your environment for a little while. Added perks: fresh air, change of scenery, exercise.&lt;br /&gt;    * Go out and do something: As an introvert, I have to be careful how I schedule my social activities so they don't end up *leading* to burn out. But I've noticed that if I plan them well enough, getting out and being with people fills me up mentally and emotionally. (They still wear me out, but not in a bad way.)&lt;br /&gt;    * Read a good book: When I'm running under tight deadlines, I've noticed that the first thing I stop doing is reading. I've noticed that when I take the time anyway, the time I spend in someone else's world actually recharges my brain, my creativity, and my energy.&lt;br /&gt;    * Learn how to say no: This is a hard one, but very necessary. &lt;br /&gt;    * Know when to say no: Not all things, people, or events are equal. Do the most important things, because they're the ones that matter in the long run.&lt;br /&gt;    * Try something you've never tried before: New experiences can be fuel for your creativity.&lt;br /&gt;    * Take a nap: Sometimes rest is all you need.&lt;br /&gt;    * Try meditation: Sometimes all our bodies need is for us to slow down for some peace and quiet.&lt;br /&gt;    * Be flexible. Extending a deadline isn't the end of the world. (Unless, of course, you have a contractual deadline you have no control over.) It's okay to take time off without feeling guilty. The important thing is getting there in one piece.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What about you? What do you do to avoid burning yourself out?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Danyelle Leafty (@danyelleleafty) writes MG and YA fantasy. In her spare time, she collects dragons, talking frogs, and fairy godmothers. She can be found discussing the art of turning one's characters into various animals, painting with words, and the best ways to avoid getting eaten by dragons on her blog. Her serial novel THE FAIRY GODMOTHER DILEMMA can be found here. The first 12 chapters of THE FAIRY GODMOTHER DILEMMA are available here.&lt;br /&gt;File Under: avoiding burning out, Danyelle Leafty&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-6924829081307316761?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/6924829081307316761/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=6924829081307316761&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6924829081307316761'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6924829081307316761'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/art-of-avoiding-burn-out.html' title='The Art of Avoiding Burn Out'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-6596614857379587220</id><published>2011-09-10T11:22:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-10T11:22:51.217-07:00</updated><title type='text'>This is me in another lifetime. ;-) on Twitpic</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://twitpic.com/1ffryg#.Tmuq9GPphUQ.blogger"&gt;This is me in another lifetime. ;-) on Twitpic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-6596614857379587220?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/6596614857379587220/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=6596614857379587220&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6596614857379587220'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6596614857379587220'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/this-is-me-in-another-lifetime-on.html' title='This is me in another lifetime. ;-) on Twitpic'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1410701317939991770</id><published>2011-09-10T11:07:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-09-10T11:10:44.430-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Darkness Sweeping Away the Joy'/><title type='text'>The Highs and Lows of a Writer’s Life (or anyone's life, for that matter!)</title><content type='html'>The Highs and Lows of a Writer’s Life&lt;br /&gt;Jody Hedlund&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a glorious day. I was basking in all the love and encouragement from blog readers. My inbox was filled with wonderful comments about my new website and redecorated blog. I was beginning to get positive reviews on my debut novel The Preacher’s Bride.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The writer’s life was looking pretty good. All that hard work was paying off. I could take a breather and enjoy the view for a little while.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just as I was getting comfortable with a fresh cup of coffee and clicking through the pages of my lovely new website for the hundredth time, I got an email from my editor at Bethany House. He wanted to arrange a phone call to discuss Book 2 which I’d turned in a month ago, and he said, “We’ll be talking about a pretty significant rewrite, but I’m confident it’s a rewrite you’ll be able to make shine.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a matter of a few seconds, I plummeted off the high peak I’d been standing upon. And I crash-landed into a deep cavern. Darkness swept away the bright joy I’d felt only moments earlier.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Significant rewrite?” What did that mean?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Surely he was mistaken. Book 2 was my newest love. It was the best book I’d written yet (or so I’d thought!). I’d spent months working on it, sacrificing my time, pouring my heart into it. And now my precious Book 2 would need a significant rewrite? Why? What had gone wrong?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Crushed, I struggled to hold back the tears.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My experience is fairly typical, isn’t it? We’ve all had those really high moments where we’re feeling on top of the world. Then something happens that topples us into the pit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We might win a contest then fail to garner the attention of an agent. We get great feedback from one critique partner, but another can’t seem to find anything right. We have an agent ask to see more of our manuscript, but we don’t hear back from her for months. Perhaps an editor takes our book to committee, but then nothing happens.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My wise mother recently gave me some advice. She told me that there will always be really high praise and then also the really negative. It’s best to discard both and take what’s in the middle. The really highs and the really lows are often the exaggerations, the extremes, the ones that will either flatter us too much or bring unnecessary discouragement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are just a few things I’m telling myself as I try to navigate the highs and lows of the writer’s life:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Remember the path leads through both valleys and peaks. I can’t get to the next peak without going through the valley first. Isn’t that true of writing and life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Stand up straight and keep walking. When I’m in the valley I can look back at the past peak to remind myself of where I’ve been to give me incentive. But ultimately, I have to put one foot in front of the other and keep moving forward, even if the next high point isn’t in sight yet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Share the journey with a few who understand. Not everyone is going to be able to come along side us, but hopefully we can find friends we can trust, those willing to hear our greatest fears and highest joys, those who encourage us, but also help us stay grounded.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How’s your writing journey been lately? Have you had to weather the extreme highs and the discouraging lows? What helps you navigate through them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TheDoctorsLady* * * (book by Jody Hedlund)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jody Hedlund is a bestselling author of historical fiction published by Bethany House. She did the rewrite her editor requested, and The Doctor’s Lady recently released to rave reviews.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1410701317939991770?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1410701317939991770/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1410701317939991770&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1410701317939991770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1410701317939991770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/09/highs-and-lows-of-writers-life-or.html' title='The Highs and Lows of a Writer’s Life (or anyone&apos;s life, for that matter!)'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2448681204485584463</id><published>2011-08-28T18:43:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-28T18:43:20.917-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Healing Dreams: Exploring the Dreams That Can Transform Your Life by - Powell's Books</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/9781573221672"&gt;Healing Dreams: Exploring the Dreams That Can Transform Your Life by - Powell&amp;#39;s Books&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2448681204485584463?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2448681204485584463/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2448681204485584463&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2448681204485584463'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2448681204485584463'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/08/healing-dreams-exploring-dreams-that.html' title='Healing Dreams: Exploring the Dreams That Can Transform Your Life by - Powell&apos;s Books'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7370287067428758361</id><published>2011-08-26T10:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-26T10:38:13.864-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='time pressure stifles creativity'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn had this today in today's post</title><content type='html'>"One day's happiness often predicts the next day's creativity." (Teresa Amabile)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: Those of us who think we create best when under pressure or when meeting deadlines should think again. Amabile found that "time pressure stifles creativity because people can't deeply engage with the problem. Creativity requires an incubation period, people need time to soak in a problem and let the ideas bubble up." You can read management guru Bill Breen's famous interview with Teresa Amabile here. A note of caution--none of the subjects of Amabile's now classic research were crows.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7370287067428758361?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7370287067428758361/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7370287067428758361&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7370287067428758361'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7370287067428758361'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/08/robert-genn-had-this-today-in-todays.html' title='Robert Genn had this today in today&apos;s post'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-5934370928571009419</id><published>2011-08-12T12:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-12T12:17:50.740-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Artist's Creed</title><content type='html'>&lt;iframe width="425" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/1LZp9rQiibQ?fs=1" frameborder="0" allowFullScreen=""&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-5934370928571009419?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/5934370928571009419/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=5934370928571009419&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5934370928571009419'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5934370928571009419'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/08/artists-creed.html' title='The Artist&apos;s Creed'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://img.youtube.com/vi/1LZp9rQiibQ/default.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8799039761674914437</id><published>2011-07-08T12:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-07-08T12:32:33.221-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Malchemy: Randomlings</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://malchemy.blogspot.com/2011/06/i-have-taken-intense-dislike-to-word.html?spref=bl"&gt;Malchemy: Randomlings&lt;/a&gt;: "I have an intense dislike for the word 'monetize' and derivatives thereof.    I feel that I am on the wrong side of the fence as many German..."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8799039761674914437?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://malchemy.blogspot.com/2011/06/i-have-taken-intense-dislike-to-word.html?spref=bl' title='Malchemy: Randomlings'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8799039761674914437/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8799039761674914437&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8799039761674914437'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8799039761674914437'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/07/malchemy-randomlings.html' title='Malchemy: Randomlings'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2755537022507622276</id><published>2011-06-24T16:19:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-24T16:19:06.840-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Guest Post: Interview with Jerry Waxler on Memoir Writing | Write On~</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://krpooler.com/?p=1294#.TgUbXkdVnWs.blogger"&gt;Guest Post: Interview with Jerry Waxler on Memoir Writing | Write On~&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2755537022507622276?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://krpooler.com/?p=1294#.TgUbXkdVnWs.blogger' title='Guest Post: Interview with Jerry Waxler on Memoir Writing | Write On~'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2755537022507622276/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2755537022507622276&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2755537022507622276'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2755537022507622276'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/06/guest-post-interview-with-jerry-waxler.html' title='Guest Post: Interview with Jerry Waxler on Memoir Writing | Write On~'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-4976619124804291223</id><published>2011-06-15T14:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-15T14:05:57.384-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='What makes a memoir great?'/><title type='text'>Writing Memoir: An Interview with Richard Hoffman by Lisa Tener</title><content type='html'>Writing Memoir: An Interview with Richard Hoffman&lt;br /&gt;Posted on May 23, 2011 by Lisa Tener &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard Hoffman is a featured presenter at the Ocean State Summer Writing Conference and one of my favorites.&lt;br /&gt;Each June, I look forward to the Ocean State Summer Writing Conference sponsored by the University of Rhode Island–both as a presenter and a participant. I especially enjoy the first two days of Advanced Workshops–always with great writing teachers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My first year, I took a memoir workshop with Richard Hoffman–not so much to write my own memoir, which I can’t help thinking would be fairly dull, but to support my clients and students writing memoir. The workshop was great fun and I was actually surprised to enjoy what I wrote.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I heard Richard is returning to URI once I again, I thought it a great opportunity to ask him about writing memoir, particularly about the challenges that come up in writing a memoir.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisa: What would you say are the things that makes a memoir great?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard Hoffman: The very best memoirs remain intent on an inquiry the author is making into his or her life and times. Who what and where are only the starting point, the real questions are how and why. When you begin to follow that line of inquiry, it leads to real discovery. You come to understand how the forces shaping your life, the life you have in common with others, made you who you are and the world you live in what it is. I’m always telling my students two things: Don’t write about your life — write from your life. And don’t be content to turn your life into ink — turn it into art.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisa: I like that–I’ve often thought that when you’re truly writing in that place of inspiration, you’re learning something new.  That’s when writing opens up.  Richard, what advice would you give someone who is just starting to write a memoir–where to start writing?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard Hoffman: Wherever you can! Think of a spiderweb. You can hook that first thread anywhere it will hold. The important thing is to not think in linear terms at all when you’re writing. Write scenes. Write pages of reflection. Write what’s available to you to write today. Memory’s mercurial; if something offers itself to be explored, explore it while it’s “live”. If you shoo it away because you’re convinced that today you’re going to work on, say, Chapter 7, it might not come back! That’s my experience anyway.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Write modularly in the order that presents itself to you. You’re exploring, looking for clues, praying for happy accidents. Trying to uncover what was hidden (sometimes by the “official story” you’ve been telling yourself for years). A book is read from the upper left-hand corner of page one to the lower right-hand corner of the last page — but that is not how it is written! At least not in my experience. Composition happens only later, when you’ve turned over every rock and shaken every tree. The next stage, fashioning a story, a narrative, from the parts comes pretty late in the process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisa: How many flashbacks can a memoir have? How do you prevent it from getting confusing if there are flashbacks? Are there any “tricks” to making the flashbacks flow smoothly?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard: This is a term that comes from fiction and film studies and even there it is much abused. A memoir need only be linear insofar as a reader must know whether an event happened before or after another event. That’s pretty easily signaled and can be done artfully and gracefully with transitions. I wouldn’t worry much about this. Things tend to fall in place, and when they do you end up with insight or, often, further questions that will lead you to deeper understandings. When you’ve got a complete draft, give it to a few of your best reader friends and see if anyone complains that they’re lost. A writer needs good colleagues, not necessarily other writers although that’s a good thing, but a few readers you can trust to be critical and encouraging, who are on your team but won’t let you slide, either.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisa: I read Half the House after taking your workshop and found it profoundly moving. I imagine it would have been hard to write–I think especially of your brother’s illness and death and the abuse you suffered. What was the most challenging thing about writing Half the House?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard Hoffman: Uncovering the story I was telling, and learning what of my life was and was not part of that story. There is always a principle of selection at work in a book. You cannot get your whole life and all its experiences into it, so you have to find the story you need to tell. Once you have that — and getting to that point may take a long long time and hundreds of pages — then anything that is extraneous to the story has to go. I had already decided I would be candid about the abuse in my boyhood, but that’s an event, not a story. The story is how and why, always how and why, and also the consequences of events.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisa: How did you deal with that challenge?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard Hoffman: I walked away from the book when I had to, and worked on it when I had the time and the psychic energy. In the meantime I wrote short stories, essays, poems. It’s important to have other pots on other burners. There has to be some joy in writing or it is just tedious. I don’t mean you have to write silly, falsely cheerful stuff. But if every time you go to your writing desk you’re staring into the abyss, you’ll either quit doing it or become sick. I’m serious about this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing memoir, even if you’re not writing about atrocity, is a trip to the underworld where you begin to see, in the dark, the dead who preceded you; you start to be able to see the roots of things. You’ll probably even see many of your self-protective illusions for what they really are. It takes a toll. You have to be careful for your bodily and psychological health, and you have to take care to retain the pleasure of writing, so having other writing projects is extremely important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisa: Other challenges?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard Hoffman: I guess one other challenge (among many, too many) is that most people think a memoir is when you just write down what happened so what’s the big deal? Anybody can do that. Well, everybody has a story, that’s true; but not everyone can write a memoir, and even fewer can write a really good one. Like any art, it takes years of study and reading and trying and failing. The prevailing view is simplistic. It’s like looking at Edward Steichen’s photographs and saying, “What the hell, I have a camera on my cellphone; why don’t I go for a walk in the woods and take some pictures?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My advice to someone writing a memoir is not to talk too much about it. People will not understand what it takes and they’ll be forever asking you, “You finished that book yet?” when what they mean is, “What’s taking you so long?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Richard Hoffman is author of the celebrated memoir Half the House; the short story collection Interference and Other Stories; and three poetry collections: Without Paradise; Gold Star Road, winner of the 2006 Barrow Street Press Poetry Prize and the New England Poetry Club’s Sheila Motton Book Award; and most recently, Emblem. He teaches at Emerson College and currently serves as chair of PEN New England. He will be presenting an advanced workshop and a master class at the University of Rhode Island’s Ocean State Summer Writing Conference June 23-25.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-4976619124804291223?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/4976619124804291223/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=4976619124804291223&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4976619124804291223'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4976619124804291223'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/06/writing-memoir-interview-with-richard.html' title='Writing Memoir: An Interview with Richard Hoffman by Lisa Tener'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1261407550175143317</id><published>2011-06-15T12:58:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-15T13:01:31.709-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Art and Morality'/><title type='text'>Life and death in the art factory by Robert Genn</title><content type='html'>Life and death in the art factory&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;June 14, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yesterday, Loretta West of Spokane, WA, asked, "Is art somehow diminished when the artist doesn't actually do the work? These days, some artists have others doing their work for them. I've always believed that 'Heart to Hand' was important, but what if I was physically unable to paint again? Could I have a staff paint my ideas for me?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks, Loretta. To bring some perspective, I passed the question on to my friend Joe Blodgett. "Absolutely disgusting," he blurted through his Scotch. "Art is one of the last things individuals can fully make with their hands, and they need to do it on their own. When artists pass their work onto others, it's just like those plops that steers make all over Texas."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Fair enough," I said, pouring him another shot, "But what about the disabled artist Angela de la Cruz who suffered a stroke at age 46? Unable to speak well or move her hands properly, she sends out daily instructional emails to her five employees. Her work won the Turner Prize last year."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"She's confusing the making of art with the making of money," said Joe. "And so are those corruptible Turner-Prizers. It's called 'extended pocket-lining.' She's looking for fame and dealers, not art, and all the fools are on her bandwagon."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I suppose you don't think much of the New York artist Alexander Gorlizki either," I said. "His Indian-influenced work is made for him by seven inexpensive painters in Jaipur, India. Gorlizki prefers not to be involved in the actual painting. He claims it would take him twenty years to get as good as his chief painter Riyaz Uddin. To Gorlizki's credit, he sometimes flies over to see how his work is going."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Inexcusably rotten," said Joe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then some big names are also rotten," I said. "Damien Hirst has assistants. Robert Motherwell had 'em. Andy Warhol had a 'Factory.' Jeff Koons currently employs hundreds. Koons' works are labour intensive and he feels he doesn't need to do the labour any more. The conceptualist-minimalist Sol LeWitt sketched a grandiose idea on his deathbed and had 16 artists produce it three years after he took off for the big studio in the sky."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Posthumous poseur," said Joe.  "Even Michelangelo, Rubens and Rembrandt had studios full of helpers," I said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hamburger helpers," said Joe. Joe is basically a nice guy. I have the feeling that if he could paint pictures, he'd do them all by himself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "It liberates me not being encumbered by technical proficiency." (Alexander Gorlizki)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: Jeff Koons runs a vast studio in a businesslike way, demanding efficiency from his army of managers, deputy managers and workers. As in a beehive, there's a division of labour. Some workers mix paint while others put it on. Electric hoists move things up and down while Koons watches every move, and, according to him, checks every stroke. "It's about the production of the work," he says. "I need my workers to stay focused."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Coach Sherrie says: If only I believed this was moral, I'd be a millionaire by now. I have tons of ideas a week. If I could pass the ideas to someone else to make for me, I could quit my day job!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1261407550175143317?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1261407550175143317/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1261407550175143317&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1261407550175143317'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1261407550175143317'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/06/life-and-death-in-art-factory-by-robert.html' title='Life and death in the art factory by Robert Genn'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7096733123752092829</id><published>2011-06-15T10:49:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-15T10:52:53.652-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Make Your Beginning Stronger'/><title type='text'>9 Ways to Strengthen Your Beginning by Jody Hedlund</title><content type='html'>9 Ways to Strengthen Your Beginning&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Filled under : backstory , beginnings , Characters , conflict&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just for the record: I hate beginnings. The first fifty pages of my novels are inevitably torture to write. I’m always sure I’ve lost my touch, convinced that every successful story in the past was a fluke, absolutely certain that I’ll never make these opening scenes gripping enough to hook a reader. And it’s no wonder. Beginnings are hard. And important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They are the sales pitch for your entire story. Doesn’t matter how slam-bang your finish is, doesn’t matter how fresh your dialogue is, doesn’t matter if your characters are so real they tap dance their way off the pages. If your beginning doesn’t fulfill any of a number of requirements, chances are readers won’t get far enough to discover your story’s hidden merits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately for us harried writers no surefire pattern exists for the perfect opening. However, most good beginnings do share a couple traits. Following are nine.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Don’t open before the beginning. Mystery author William G. Tapley points out, “Starting before the beginning… means loading up your readers with background information they have no reason to care about.” Don’t dump your backstory—however vital to the plot—into your reader’s lap right away. No one wants to hear someone’s life story the moment after they meet them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Open with characters, preferably the protagonist. Even the most plot-driven tales inevitably boil down to characters. The personalities that inhabit your stories are what will connect with readers. If you fail to connect with them right off the bat, you can cram all the action you want into your opening, but the intensity and the drama will still fall flat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Open with the inciting event: the catalyst. Every story is based on an “inciting event,” the first domino, which, when knocked over, starts the chain of dominoes tumbling. This catalyst is the moment your story officially begins, and, presumably, it’s also the first moment of high interest. Use that to your advantage and get right to the point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Open with conflict. No conflict, no story. Conflict doesn’t always mean nuclear warheads going off, but it does demand that your characters be at odds with someone or something right from the get go. Conflict keeps the pages turning, and turning pages are nowhere more important than in the beginning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Open with movement. Openings need more than action, they need motion. Motion gives readers a sense of progression and, when necessary, urgency. Whenever possible, open with a scene that allows your characters to keep moving, even if they’re just walking down the street.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Open with something that makes the reader ask a question. Unanswered questions fuel intrigue; intrigue keeps the reader’s interest. If you can present a situation that immediately has your reader asking questions, you’ve significantly upped the odds that he’ll keep reading.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Anchor the reader to avoid confusion. As a caveat to #6, make sure you have your readers asking the right questions. You want to give them enough information so they can ask intelligent, informed questions, not “What the heck is going on here?!” As soon as possible, anchor them with the pertinent facts: who the characters are, what the current dilemma is, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Orient the reader with an “establishing” shot. Anchoring the reader can often be done best by taking a cue from the movies and opening with an “establishing” shot. If done skillfully, you can present the setting and the characters’ positions in it in as little as a sentence or two.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. Set the tone. Because your opening chapter sets the tone for your entire story, you need to give the reader accurate presuppositions about the type of tale he’s going to be reading. Your beginning needs to set the stage for the inevitable denouement—without, of course, giving it away.&lt;br /&gt;If you can nail all nine of these points in your opening chapter, your readers are likely to keep the pages turning all the way into the wee hours of the morning!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related Posts: Utilizing Character in Beginnings&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7096733123752092829?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7096733123752092829/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7096733123752092829&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7096733123752092829'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7096733123752092829'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/06/9-ways-to-strengthen-your-beginning-by.html' title='9 Ways to Strengthen Your Beginning by Jody Hedlund'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2611373659123024021</id><published>2011-05-26T13:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-05-26T13:35:52.557-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Writing IS Cathartic'/><title type='text'>How I Wrote What I Was Terrified To Write, by Diana Spechler</title><content type='html'>How I Wrote What I Was Terrified To Write&lt;br /&gt;Diana Spechler’s second novel, SKINNY, released on April 26th. It’s the story of a compulsive eater who takes a job at a weight-loss camp, and is forced to come to grips with herself, her father’s lies, and the half-sister she never knew existed. Diana has written for a variety of esteemed publications including the New York Times, GQ, and Esquire, and teaches writing in New York City. I’m thrilled she’s with us today to talk about writing what you know–and why it’s important. Enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How I Finally Wrote What I Was Terrified To Write&lt;br /&gt;I used to deny that my writing was cathartic. Instead, I talked about it as if I spent my days coating plastics on an assembly line. “It’s work,” I always said. “It’s like any job.” But when I decided to write SKINNY, a novel exploring body image issues, I ran into trouble: How was I supposed to write about one of my worst pains without feeling it? I had struggled with body image issues since before I could remember. I have a vivid memory of being ten years old, sitting on a beach in a bathing suit, feeling a roll in my stomach, and wanting to cry. This was not assembly-line material. An emotion was bound to slip out.&lt;br /&gt;Of course, I tried not to let that happen. I stopped and started the novel a million times because I was holding back, afraid to climb inside my protagonist’s head and experience her eating disorder. I didn’t want to watch her fantasize about ice cream sundaes, binge at an all-you-can-eat buffet, and use men as a stand-in for food. But if I didn’t do that, I didn’t have much of a character. And without that character, I didn’t have much of a story.&lt;br /&gt;One day when I was complaining about how difficult the work was, my best friend, also a novelist, said something that freed me:&lt;br /&gt;“I think you should remember that this is your story.”&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps it sounds like a strange thing for one fiction writer to say to another, but fiction is, in a sense, nonfiction. That is, our characters can scale mountains, sprout wings, win baseball games, live on boats, live in dumpsters, live on Jupiter, or live three hundred years ago, but the emotions we make them experience are the ones we experience ourselves.&lt;br /&gt;I’d been divorcing myself from my protagonist to shield myself from two things: the pain of real writing and the exposure that would accompany publication. But I wanted this book to be good, so I knew I had to lose the shield. And so, as I continued working on SKINNY, I began asking myself the same questions over and over:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;   1. Are you being honest?&lt;br /&gt;   2. Is your protagonist being honest?&lt;br /&gt;   3. Are you protecting your protagonist/yourself? (Stop it.)&lt;br /&gt;   4. If you didn’t have to protect yourself, what would you make her do/say?&lt;br /&gt;   5. Are you writing as if no one you know will read this? (You should be.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those questions got me through the first draft, the second draft, all the subsequent drafts, and everything I’ve written since. I have ended my job on the assembly line and begun my work as a writer.&lt;br /&gt;When you’re writing fiction, the best gift you can give yourself and the work is honesty. Yes, writing SKINNY often caused me pain. But in the end, it turned out to be the good kind of pain, like the physical therapy I once did for a shoulder injury: It was pain that made everything better.&lt;br /&gt;Thanks so much, Diana, for a great post! Readers, you can learn more about Diana’s compelling novel, SKINNY, by visiting Diana’s website and&lt;br /&gt;author page at Harper Collins, and you can follow her on Twitter and Facebook. Write on!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2611373659123024021?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2611373659123024021/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2611373659123024021&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2611373659123024021'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2611373659123024021'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/05/how-i-wrote-what-i-was-terrified-to.html' title='How I Wrote What I Was Terrified To Write, by Diana Spechler'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-5497921889421041380</id><published>2011-05-25T21:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-05-25T21:07:17.723-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='TURNING POINT EXERCISE'/><title type='text'>IN ANY GENRE, CHARACTERIZATION IS KEY</title><content type='html'>Guest column by Juliet Marillier, who was born in&lt;br /&gt;Dunedin, New Zealand, and now lives in Western&lt;br /&gt;Australia. Her historical fantasy novels, including&lt;br /&gt;the best-selling Sevenwaters series, have been&lt;br /&gt;translated into many languages and have won a&lt;br /&gt;number of awards including the American Library&lt;br /&gt;Association’s Alex Award and the Prix Imaginales&lt;br /&gt;(see all books here). Juliet is a member of OBOD&lt;br /&gt;(the Order of Bards, Ovates and Druids). She lives&lt;br /&gt;in a 100-year-old cottage, which she shares with a&lt;br /&gt;pack of waifs and strays. Learn more at her website.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strange how life imitates art. Since my cancer diagnosis, I’ve felt curiously as if I were living in one of my own books. Each of my novels features a protagonist undertaking a difficult personal journey. On the way, each of these characters—mostly female—discovers something about herself and at the same time makes an impact on other people’s lives. Each eventually finds her inner courage and proves she is able to learn from all her experiences, even the painful and frightening. Facing a similar journey, full of challenges and unknowns, I feel obliged to delve inside myself and find the same combination of wisdom and warrior spirit. What I write, I must be prepared to live. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;IN ANY GENRE, CHARACTERIZATION IS KEY&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a novelist, I’m endlessly fascinated by human behavior and interactions. The most satisfying stories are those in which the protagonists change and develop along the way. In many fantasy novels, the emphasis is on world-building and/or keeping the story going at a cracking pace, and depth of characterization can fall by the wayside. The best fantasy—indeed the best fiction in any genre—contains characters so real that they draw us into the heart of their journey. We understand why they make bad choices. We share their secrets. We know their weaknesses and flaws. We applaud when they win small battles, become wiser, confront their demons. We weep when they fail.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are technical tricks that may help you create more effective characters. My approach to characterization is not at all technical. I can’t really analyze how I do it, but I am sure of one thing. To write convincing characters, you must possess the ability to think yourself into someone else’s skin. I’m not talking about an intellectual exercise, but something more visceral. I don’t know if it can be learned. I believe I’ve acquired it through life experience. The ability to understand what makes people tick comes from within. In your mind, you must be the character in order to make his or her journey real.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TURNING POINT EXERCISE&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Test yourself by imagining how you might act, feel, respond in each of the following situations:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Someone close to you, your child, partner, or parent, is facing torture or summary execution. You can save him or her if you are prepared to betray an old and trusted friend. What physical sensations are you feeling? What is in your mind? What choice will you make? What will this do to your sense of self and your relationships with these people afterward?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Every day you walk on eggshells to avoid provoking a family member’s abusive behavior. This is the habit of many years. One day something changes in you—you pack a suitcase and leave. That night, in the safety of a friend’s house, you sit in front of the fire alone. What are your physical sensations? What do you see, hear, smell, touch? What is going through your mind? In what ways do you feel different?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * You have always been an independent person, in control of your own life, your beloved house, animals and garden. But you’ve had a stroke, and your children have just moved you to an old people’s home. They’ve unpacked your possessions neatly, had a cup of tea with you and left. What are you doing? How are you feeling? What is the future looking like right now?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now move on to one of your own characters. First, look at the beginning and end of this character’s journey. Then zoom in on three or four key moments along the way. When is she at her highest? Her lowest? What are the significant turning points? Apply the scenario exercise to each of those, remembering that you are the character. Take a snapshot of your physical, mental and emotional state. The snapshots can provide a blueprint for this character’s development.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, each scenario leads to various possibilities, just as the woman trying on the wigs faces many possible futures. What kind of wig does she choose?  The one that is most like her own hair. She needs no additional armor—her warrior spirit is inside.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(A version of this post appeared on Writer Unboxed in 2009. Juliet is currently in good health. Seer of Sevenwaters (Roc, December 2010) was written during her year of cancer treatment.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by Juliet Marillier&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-5497921889421041380?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/5497921889421041380/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=5497921889421041380&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5497921889421041380'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5497921889421041380'/><link rel='alternate' 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for email notices for Leah McClellan's Peaceful Planet blog and got the link to download a copy of her free ebook, Everybody's Guide to Proofreading. It's also a premium for subscribing to her Eagle Eye blog that might have more specific interest to writers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The book is terrific, full of good information. I urge you to visit both Leah's sites and sign up yourself, but right in the front of the ebook, she says it's okay to share it as we wish, so if you'd rather not sign up, here's the link: http://snurl.com/27v3bb   [peacefulplanetcommunication.com]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sharon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Find me on the web:&lt;br /&gt;http://heartandcraft.blogspot.com&lt;br /&gt;http://writing4health.com&lt;br /&gt;slippincott@windstream.net&lt;br /&gt;ritergal@gmail.com&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;__._,_.___&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8929026346724339739?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8929026346724339739/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8929026346724339739&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8929026346724339739'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8929026346724339739'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/05/peaceful-planet-blog-and-other.html' title='Peaceful Planet Blog and Other Interesting Sites'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1777161304378968876</id><published>2011-05-04T15:02:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-05-04T15:04:36.824-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spirit of Creativity'/><title type='text'>Freedom..... Do you feel it?</title><content type='html'>Freedom..... Do you feel it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I remember a couple of years ago I was talking about this with a friend.  I remember commenting that I knew once upon a time that I did have freedom but I must have misplaced it somewhere along the way.  I just couldn't seem to find it anymore.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you ever felt this way before Sherrie?   I'd be willing to guess that you have.  It's a pretty common thing for us to feel in this busy world that we've created for ourselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The truth is FREEDOM had never left me at all.  And I had certainly not misplaced it.  I had just misplaced my attention on areas that kept me feeling distracted, tense, tight and restricted.  What I had actually misplaced was not my freedom but my focus on taking time to RELAX, TRUST and to just BE in the moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As time goes on I realize more and more the true benefit of relaxing, not only for the sake of physical health but in the enjoyment of ALL aspects of life.   Nothing desired can flow through when we're restricted, tense, worrying, doubting or engaging in any of the other 'ing words that do not include relaxing.  And you know, we dont even need to be "perfect" at this relaxing thing for it to make a positive difference in our lives... Every little bit really does add up.   Eventually we even begin to develop a WONDERFUL new HABIT of RELAXING.   How 'bout that?!   Sounds good doesn't it?  Well, it gets even better.......&lt;br /&gt;Relaxing opens the creative channels within us wide and clear, creating an expansiveness where everything flows sooooo much smoother than ever before.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Conscious Creativity begins with truly RELAXING and simply allowing the process to be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Can you remember what really helps you to relax Sherrie?&lt;br /&gt;What else do you think might work for you?&lt;br /&gt;How can you incorporate a little more of this relaxing time and focus into this week?&lt;br /&gt;How about beginning by simply remembering how good it feels when you simply...........&lt;br /&gt;LET GO, BREATHE and just BE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until next time,&lt;br /&gt;Wishing you only the very best in the Spirit of Creativity!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;~Pam Ellis&lt;br /&gt;Your coach beyond borders&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Certified Kaizen-MuseⓇ Creativity Coach&lt;br /&gt;NLP Master Practitioner ~ Clinical Hypnotherapist&lt;br /&gt;Certified EFT Practitioner&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1777161304378968876?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1777161304378968876/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1777161304378968876&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1777161304378968876'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1777161304378968876'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/05/freedom-do-you-feel-it.html' title='Freedom..... Do you feel it?'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8798109347180957609</id><published>2011-04-09T09:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-04-09T09:35:57.887-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Don&apos;t Judge'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Just Write'/><title type='text'>Are You a Writer?</title><content type='html'>Are You a Writer?&lt;br /&gt;by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People ask me about writing all the time. How does it work? How can they get their message out to the world? On the recent Hay House I Can Do It cruise, I spoke to the Writer’s Workshop which was one of the programs given on the ship. What a great group of eager, empowered, and energetic people! I told them that it all hinges on what Abraham Maslow taught me many years ago when I was a young doctoral student. He told me to put forth what I wanted, my work, my message, and then detach from the outcome. This is true for any life work because the work itself must be what is satisfying and fulfilling for you. Writing is challenging work because it’s so easy to get consumed with how it’s going, what’s going to happen to it, who’s going to like or not like it. You want to get all of that stuff out of your head and just let the work flow. If you incarnated to be a writer, if that is your passionate calling, then you’ll be getting messages from Source, from Spirit, leading you in that direction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are thinking these thoughts and being guided to write, remember that you incarnated to be a writer, not necessarily an editor. Your first job is to write and not to apply a critical eye to your work without first letting it pour forth. Writing is like anything else—the more you do it, the better you get at it, the easier it comes and the less concerned you’ll be about what’s going to happen to it, where it’s going, what it sounds like, whether it’s right. After my four decades of writing, I have a practice that works beautifully for me. I just let the ideas flow through my heart. I don’t write with a machine. I write with a pen and a paper which is what is most comfortable for me. I just let it flow, and I have a wonderful editor who’s been with me for 32 years. I let her take care of all the details.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To get started, forget the details and let your ideas come out on paper. Get your passion on the paper. Let the passion that you feel come through. You won’t be able to stop and it will be the best writing you ever did. Detach from the outcome. Forget about whether it’s going to get published, whether it’s good or not good, whether it’s the right thing. There is no right in this. Let it come; be an instrument of flow. It’s the practice that makes it work out. If you told me you had a lousy backhand in tennis, wouldn’t I tell you to go out and hit 1000 backhand shots this week? Keep doing what you love to the best of your ability. Stop judging and get out of your own way.  I always tell audiences when I talk about writing: Writing isn’t something I do, writing is something that I am. I am writing—it’s just an expression of me. Is that how it is for you?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8798109347180957609?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8798109347180957609/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8798109347180957609&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8798109347180957609'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8798109347180957609'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/04/are-you-writer.html' title='Are You a Writer?'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1560070896902418197</id><published>2011-03-18T18:23:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-03-18T18:23:27.323-07:00</updated><title type='text'>(Un)Learning a Few Lessons from the Music Industry</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.gatekeeperspost.com/published-authors/unlearning-a-few-lessons-from-the-music-industry/"&gt;(Un)Learning a Few Lessons from the Music Industry&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1560070896902418197?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.gatekeeperspost.com/published-authors/unlearning-a-few-lessons-from-the-music-industry/' title='(Un)Learning a Few Lessons from the Music Industry'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1560070896902418197/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1560070896902418197&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1560070896902418197'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1560070896902418197'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/03/unlearning-few-lessons-from-music.html' title='(Un)Learning a Few Lessons from the Music Industry'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1769435615349364965</id><published>2011-03-11T14:36:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-11T14:37:58.656-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Art as An Honoring of the Gifts of the World'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn on Art as "A Spiritual Event"</title><content type='html'>A spiritual event&lt;br /&gt;March 11, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm walking a labyrinth in Sedona, Arizona. I'm repeating the words, "My higher self is guiding me." As well as thinking of something else, I'm wondering if there's "something else."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sedona is one of those spiritual hot spots where visitors come for all sorts of body work, yoga, self-improvement, or guru-inspired transformation. In the USA, this kind of stuff is a $10 billion-a-year industry. Sedona is also the place where three fine folks allowed themselves to be cooked to death in a spiritual sauna at the end of a labyrinth. This was at the urging of the now bankrupt and criminally implicated guru James Arthur Ray. If only those folks had been aware of the life-centering force and personal power one gets from the harmless little activity known as painting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yep, I'm talking about painting as a spiritual event. The act has something to do with making a physical tribute--a sort of a visual prayer--honouring the gifts that surround us and the life we've been given.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before you hit that delete key or drop a note to say I've gone wonky again, here are a few observations for those who might be buying my oysters:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Art establishes and makes tangible a time, a place, a thought, an idea.&lt;br /&gt;Art, properly made, enhances and enriches the lives of others.&lt;br /&gt;Art gives an opportunity to endow new life and new meaning into the ordinary.&lt;br /&gt;Art gives an opportunity to design your own world, and, as in your children, create a significant immortality.&lt;br /&gt;Art is hard-earned work that is its own reward and has a degree of permanence.&lt;br /&gt;Art, because it's so easy to do, and yet so difficult to do well, encourages humility in the human soul.&lt;br /&gt;Art is an apprenticeship that can be stretched into a lifelong education.&lt;br /&gt;Art thrives on democratic ideals, freedom of expression and rugged individualism.&lt;br /&gt;Art permits you to step out of the labyrinth and into a quiet corner of your own private joy.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "You don't need to follow someone else's path." (Nathan Thornburgh)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: A spiritual awakening is often found and developed in a wilderness. It can be a poem or a parable of a deep forest, a mountain meadow or a cactus-studded desert. The outdoor spirit of plein air refreshes and further enables the indoor studio chapel. Each new creative beginning is a confirmation of the simple truth of taking care. And while it may all appear to be self-indulgent and isolating, every thought, every stroke, every caress of the brush adds a small refreshment of meaning and purpose to our universe. "Work is love made visible." (Kahlil Gibran)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1769435615349364965?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1769435615349364965/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1769435615349364965&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1769435615349364965'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1769435615349364965'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/03/robert-genn-on-art-as-spiritual-event.html' title='Robert Genn on Art as &quot;A Spiritual Event&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-3711837188255078577</id><published>2011-03-09T11:21:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-09T11:21:10.154-08:00</updated><title type='text'>There Are No Rules - 6 Common Plot Fixes</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://blog.writersdigest.com/norules/2011/03/03/6CommonPlotFixes.aspx?et_mid=177118&amp;amp;rid=3086125"&gt;There Are No Rules - 6 Common Plot Fixes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-3711837188255078577?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://blog.writersdigest.com/norules/2011/03/03/6CommonPlotFixes.aspx?et_mid=177118&amp;rid=3086125' title='There Are No Rules - 6 Common Plot Fixes'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/3711837188255078577/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=3711837188255078577&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3711837188255078577'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3711837188255078577'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/03/there-are-no-rules-6-common-plot-fixes.html' title='There Are No Rules - 6 Common Plot Fixes'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-9178808768619653469</id><published>2011-03-01T13:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-01T13:05:41.131-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Affirmations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Essential Practices'/><title type='text'>Cary Tennis discusses Affirmations &amp; Essential Practices</title><content type='html'>The foundation of the Amherst Writers and Artists workshop lies in five simple principles and five simple practices, quoted here as they appear in the book that acts as a guide for this workshop, Writing Alone and With Others, by Pat Schneider:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The Five Essential Affirmations:&lt;br /&gt;These affirmations rest on a definition of personhood that is nonhierarchical, and a definition of writing as an art form available to all persons.&lt;br /&gt;1. Everyone has a strong, unique voice.&lt;br /&gt;2. Everyone is born with creative genius.&lt;br /&gt;3. Writing as an art form belongs to all people, regardless of economic class or educational level.&lt;br /&gt;4. The teaching of craft can be done without damage to a writer's original voice or artistic self-esteem.&lt;br /&gt;5. A writer is someone who writes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Five Essential Practices:&lt;br /&gt;1. A nonhierarchical spirit (how we treat writing) in the workshop is maintained while at the same time an appropriate discipline (how we interact as a group) keeps writers safe.&lt;br /&gt;2. Confidentiality about what is written in the workshop is maintained, and the privacy of the writer is protected. All writing is treated as fiction unless the writer requests that it be treated as autobiography. At all times writers are free to refrain from reading their work aloud.&lt;br /&gt;3. Absolutely no criticism, suggestion, or question is directed toward the writer in response to first-draft, just-written work. A thorough critique is offered only when the writer asks for it and distributes work in manuscript form. Critique is balanced; there is as much affirmation as suggestion for change.&lt;br /&gt;4. The teaching of craft is taken seriously and is conducted through exercises that invite experimentation and growth as well as through response to manuscripts and in private conferences.&lt;br /&gt;5. The leader writes along with the participants and reads that work aloud at least once in each writing session. This practice is absolutely necessary, for only in this way is there equality of risk taking and mutuality of trust."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have taken to reading these simple statements every session. It has a nice effect on the mind. It seems to remind the creative engine: OK, you can get to work now, there is a good structure here, it's time to open up and reveal your mysteries.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-9178808768619653469?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/9178808768619653469/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=9178808768619653469&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9178808768619653469'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9178808768619653469'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/03/cary-tennis-discusses-affirmations.html' title='Cary Tennis discusses Affirmations &amp; Essential Practices'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-728379970846898526</id><published>2011-03-01T13:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-01T13:02:37.242-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Am I Still A Writer?'/><title type='text'>Cary Tennis answers "Am I still a writer if I don't feel like writing?"</title><content type='html'>Since you asked&lt;br /&gt;Monday, Feb 26, 2007 07:04 ET&lt;br /&gt;I don't feel like writing. Does that mean I'm not a writer?&lt;br /&gt;Every time I start to work on my second novel, an enormous laziness descends upon me.&lt;br /&gt;By Cary Tennis&lt;br /&gt;    *&lt;br /&gt;Dear Cary,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am a young, talented writer. (You should know how much effort it took me to write that sentence without any auto-excuses built in.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It took me a lot of time and courage to figure out that I was writer in the first place, since I have been struggling with a low self-esteem for a long time. But here I am, 31, knowing what I want to do, where I want to go.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got my first book published in 2002, a youth novel, and it was received well. I got married and became a father, and I have a full-time day job now to support my wonderful family. And he lived happily ever after? No.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since my first book got out, surprise surprise, I haven't been writing anymore. Plenty of ideas, but I just didn't manage to commit myself to it. When I met the young author David Mitchell last year, it was so inspiring that I started again. But three chapters into my second novel, I bailed out, stopped.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is not that I'm stuck in the story I want to write; it still has plenty of energy. But whenever I even think of writing, I feel this huge laziness coming up, like some old man with a heavily sighing voice says, "I just don't feel like it." It looks like I need outside stimuli to write; the power to start working again does not come from the inside. Strange.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am I lazy? Am I afraid of failing? Do I lack the discipline, the artistic urge, the necessity? Am I not a writer after all? Should I give up writing and learn to be happy without it? These questions drive me crazy sometimes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I feel like the man in Kafka's "The Trial" now, the one who waits all his life before the doors of the courtroom of his trial but never really gets in. I feel stuck, standing still like this. I know that I could be happy if I gave up writing, but I know that I would be missing something, too. Does that make sense?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If we have a talent, are we obliged to develop it? Or are we free to not use it at all?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;G&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear G,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You know, to me it seems possible that all the dire things you imagine could be true, and you could still write. You might very well be lazy, afraid of failure and undisciplined and still write. You might lack the urge and still write. You might not be a writer and still write. After all, a writer is just someone who writes. If you're writing, you're writing. It's a verb.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is also true -- now that we are at the task of arranging apparent contradictions in ingenious ways -- that you are both obliged to develop your talent and free not to develop it. That is, you are free to acknowledge but defy obligations; you are free to say no to obligations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I personally do believe that, as a guide to right living, we do have an obligation to develop our talents. But this is largely a practical rather than a moral matter for me. I do not think so highly of myself as to assume that the world will be greatly improved by my contributions. But I have observed that mastery of a craft is personally satisfying, and that failure and frustration are not. So I stick to writing and music, and do not paint or draw.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are free. That is the thing. You are free not to write if you so choose. But you are not alone. Your choices matter to others. And the choices of others matter to you. I say this by way of getting at this notion that your inspiration should come only from some tiny, esoteric writing gland behind your navel. As a writer, you are dependent on others. You could not have published your first book alone. Why should you believe that you can write without any external stimulus? If you need to meet with a writers group, enroll in a class, arrange with a mentor or writing friend to share work on agreed-upon deadlines, or if you need to work out a schedule of deadlines with your editor or agent, then please do so. This is often the case. The idea that a writer works only from inner inspiration is, I think, a bit of a romantic myth, rooted in the idea of writer as solitary and mysterious hero. The writer may be that, but he is also a person in a web of community, and he is also fallible. He may be lazy and unable to meet deadlines; he may be, as I am, fearful of completion. So there is nothing wrong with building into your life some structures that compensate for your weaknesses. We are not supermen. We all need a little help.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As to this interesting voice you hear, this heavy sighing, I will say, as I believe I've said before, that only after I did a short course of cognitive therapy did I realize that the voice I was hearing, the one that said "I can't write!" and "My writing sucks!" had an actual historical source, and that the veracity of that statement could be objectively weighed against the evidence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It may be true that you don't feel like writing. You are probably working hard and have many duties as a father. So there will be times that you have to write even though you don't feel like it. In that sense, writing is like your other roles in life as a worker and a father and a husband: It requires you to do things you don't want to do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You do it because that is your role. It's the only way you can get anything done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope this is of some help. Good luck with the next book.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-728379970846898526?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/728379970846898526/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=728379970846898526&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/728379970846898526'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/728379970846898526'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/03/cary-tennis-answers-am-i-still-writer.html' title='Cary Tennis answers &quot;Am I still a writer if I don&apos;t feel like writing?&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-4235981380078309966</id><published>2011-03-01T11:26:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-01T11:28:15.692-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Attitude Makes All the Difference'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mindfulness'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn on "The Sublime Gift"</title><content type='html'>The sublime gift&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;February 25, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With my weakness for studying creative people, asking trick questions, and listening to dreams and rants, I've decided that some artists are blessed with a sublime gift. It's not of talent (that's another issue) but of attitude. Further, I don't think many, if any, are born with the attitude I'm talking about. I think some simply adopt it, often by trial and error.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To set the record straight, I've met lots of people who don't have the sublime gift at all and yet are highly realized and happy. You don't have to have the sublime gift to succeed, but it helps.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My sublimely gifted person shows a steady, workmanlike curiosity for the uncovering of his or her self-anointed processes. While the outward appearance may be a simple case of smug self-satisfaction, a closer look reveals simple task absorption tempered with the humility that comes with studenthood. Many, I was surprised to find, show an innate understanding of the methodology behind the practice of meditation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Indeed, meditation is now being revalued as one of the great tools for clearing the mind for higher purposes and actions. Have you ever heard of "MBSR"? It means "Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction" and is currently enjoying a growing number of enthusiasts. According to recent research, this sort of meditation actually changes gray-matter density, setting it up for action in the "here and now" rather than in the historical past or the fantasized future. When worry dissipates, action begins. Lower stress means higher creativity. My sublimely gifted individual moves in a world of individualized, progressive exploration, divinely unimpressed by falling roof-beams. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And while my sublimely gifted whiz-bang may be capable of multi-tasking, he's also a "one thing at a time" kind of guy. Perhaps it's the sensitively laid-back meditative state, whether from Buddhist teachings or plucked from the rich storehouse of need that gives steadiness and accomplishment to an otherwise sky-falling life.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Task absorption and focus result in refreshed habits of perception. In my findings, limited and anecdotal though they may be, pretty well every winner in pretty well every field turns out to be what is known as a "good study." That quality, perhaps more than any other, brings on the sublimely gifted life. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "Mindfulness meditation helps to reduce stress by providing insight. It's often our habits of perception and attitude rather than the circumstances themselves." (Lucinda Sykes, Toronto physician and MBSR course leader)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: "Task saturation" is a term used in the airline industry. It's where a pilot (and often the co-pilot) suddenly have too many things going on and find it difficult to make wise decisions. Sadly, it's frequently mentioned as a cause in crashes. Pressure interferes with the ability to prioritize. Funnily, "too many things going on" is also a condition of the creative and inventive. It's a wise artist who learns to manage her own pressures.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-4235981380078309966?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/4235981380078309966/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=4235981380078309966&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4235981380078309966'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4235981380078309966'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/03/robert-genn-on-sublime-gift.html' title='Robert Genn on &quot;The Sublime Gift&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8769092799090237351</id><published>2011-02-11T12:06:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-02-11T12:08:26.884-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='From Oprah.com'/><title type='text'>Nina Burleigh tells how to improve your relationship</title><content type='html'>5 Best Things to Do for Your Relationship&lt;br /&gt;By Nina Burleigh&lt;br /&gt;From the May 2005 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to love, relationships can be like cars: constant care and adjustment (instead of pricey and painful visits to the body shop/marriage counselor) are often the best way to improve and strengthen your bond. One of O's staffers gets the lowdown from the experts on five fixes to start making now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1: "Stop all shame, blame, and criticism. Instead ask for what you want in a clear, specific, and positive manner, and express appreciation for your partner. To elaborate: Men need to feel competent—that they make a contribution and that it is noticed. They like to be told what 'behavior' makes you happy. Since men tend to express affection by doing things, you should interpret their actions as love. When men know what to do and are acknowledged for it, they tend to keep doing it." — Harville Hendrix, PhD, author of Getting the Love You Want&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2: "Change from a critical habit of mind, in which you're very involved with your partner's mistakes, to a positive one, in which you catch him doing something right. Notice one small thing, and express genuine appreciation. That will change your interaction patterns from escalating negativity and criticism to building a culture of appreciation." — John M. Gottman, PhD, author of The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3: "When your relationship starts to break down, you need AAA: an Apology, Affection, and a promise of Action. You say you're sorry for what you've said or done to hurt or disappoint your partner. You immediately offer a hug, a kiss—some meaningful gesture of warmth. You pledge to do something that matters to your partner ('From now on, I will…'). And, of course, you stick to that. This whole AAA thing can take two minutes, but in that time you've healed the past, built a bridge to the present, and created hope for your future." — Mira Kirshenbaum, psychotherapist and author of The Weekend Marriage&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4: "With books on the market like How to Make Love Like a Porn Star, one of the greatest services you can do for a guy is to reassure him that he doesn't have to make love like a porn star. You can show him how to have sex like a woman: creative, sensual, non-genital-based, and more pleasure- than orgasm-focused. Lead him to an experience that goes beyond his penis and makes him fully engaged—mind, body, and soul." — Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5: "All relationships grow a bit stale as time goes by, and the longer-lasting they are, the staler they can get. The best thing you can do is pump in some fresh air. A long weekend in a romantic hideaway would be ideal, but even a few hours in a motel helps. Don't tell anyone where you are, turn off your cell phones, and unplug the TV. When you get home, you'll find your relationship has acquired ruddy cheeks." — Dr. Ruth Westheimer, psychosexual therapist and author of 52 Lessons on Communicating Love&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More from the O vault: Heartbreak Academy&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8769092799090237351?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8769092799090237351/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8769092799090237351&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8769092799090237351'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8769092799090237351'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/02/nina-burleigh-tells-how-to-improve-your.html' title='Nina Burleigh tells how to improve your relationship'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8803684964821193470</id><published>2011-01-18T07:36:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-18T07:38:33.458-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='From Oprah.com'/><title type='text'>What You Think Is What You Get</title><content type='html'>What You Think Is What You Get&lt;br /&gt;By Marianne Williamson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Author of the bestselling books The Age of Miracles and A Return to Love, Marianne Williamson discusses the power of thought and intention; is it really possible to use one's mind to turn dark thoughts into light?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's so easy to believe that external things hold the power in life. We think money, or lack of it, determines our abundance; we think other people's behavior determines our happiness; we think success or failure, as the world defines it, determines our self-worth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But it is ultimately our thinking, more than our outer circumstances, that determines whether we live lives of harmony and peace or of pain and despair. I have known healthy, wealthy people who were depressed, and people with critical illnesses who could honestly attest to joy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A scientific worldview dominated Western civilization for centuries, pronouncing the external world the only "real" world. That which we can see, hear, touch, taste and feel was deemed reality, and the mind was thought to wield little or no power in either creating or transforming material circumstances.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the past century this worldview began to change dramatically. In fact, it has been overthrown by science itself! Quantum physics and other cutting-edge theories show consciousness to be more than a mere witness to external events: It is now recognized for its role in causing and transforming events. As sages have proclaimed throughout the centuries, the world is but a reflection of what we think. As we change our thoughts, we can change our world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the realm of thought, there are two main categories: thoughts of love and thoughts of fear. Every single moment, we choose between the two. If I think with love, then I am more likely to behave lovingly and to attract love from others. If my heart is closed, I am more likely to act out of fear. Fear-based behavior tends not to look like fear but like anger or jealousy; it elicits reactions from others that reflect my fear and not my love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet in any moment, we can change our minds. God created us to co-create with Him a world of harmony and peace and joy, which the love in our hearts gives us power to do. With every thought, we choose heaven on earth or hell on earth, for ourselves and for all the world. We have the power to bless or blame, to forgive or judge. With our thoughts we have the power to honor or mock, to believe in miracles or deny the possibility that they ever happen. When our minds move in harmony with love—through forgiveness or prayer or the simplest tender thought—then mountains move and the universe shifts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps there is a situation in your life that causes you pain or anxiety, fear or grief. You can surround it in your mind with light and lift it up to God. Just that simple thought—that we take a situation of darkness and place it in the light, praying for God to do for us what we cannot do for ourselves—puts into motion a force for universal good. It is unstoppable and indestructible. It is a field of intention that all be loved. It is, in essence, the power of love itself. Think about that. And think about it some more. And then think about it some more. For as a woman thinketh, so she is....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More Marianne: The time that matters most&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8803684964821193470?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8803684964821193470/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8803684964821193470&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8803684964821193470'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8803684964821193470'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' 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type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2011/01/bg-talkies-my-name-is-red.html' title='the B_G talkies: my name is red'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1558855042176471885</id><published>2011-01-10T15:07:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-10T15:07:38.637-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Active vs. Passive Voice</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://wordplay-kmweiland.blogspot.com/2009/05/tensing-up-active-vs-passive-tense.html?sms_ss=blogger&amp;amp;at_xt=4d2b91305237c468%2C0"&gt;Active vs. Passive Voice&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' 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Covered Drive &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted: 08 Jan 2011 02:19 PM PST&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I look down the length of my snow covered drive and feel tired at the sight. I’m home alone this week, and the job is all mine, to do or ignore. The drive is 100 feet long, steeply sloping and wide. True, there are only three inches of fluffy snow. True, I could let it go, but it will only get worse if it snows more, which it probably will. True, I don’t have to do the whole thing. Even a little will be an improvement. I have no idea where to begin ... .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As you can see from the photo above (sorry, the pic didn't copy), I did finish, and in the process, I remembered several important lessons:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let the project tell you how it wants to be done.&lt;br /&gt;I paused at the bottom of the steps and listened. to my inner sense of things and to the driveway.“First things first,” I heard. “Shovel along the side so you can at least get down to the mailbox.” I did that. Then I heard “Do one scrape across the middle right there.” The next instruction was Now work your way down almost to the street. You can manage that.” Yes. I could manage that. I felt winded just shoveling the steps, but I knew that if I relaxed into it, I could do that much. I’m not that out of shape.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I steadily pushed the snow along, scraping it to the side. If only the paper delivery man had left it near the street instead of gallantly driving it up to the top. His tracks packed hard, sticking to the pavement. I moved to the top again and continued letting the driveway guide the process until I felt overheated and ravenous.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take breaks when you need them.&lt;br /&gt;I know better than to work to the point of total exhaustion. I came back in for lunch, rested, and returned to finish the job. The second half was easier. My muscles were loosened up, ready for work. I continued to proceed intuitively rather than trying to map out a plan.In a surprisingly short time, I was done. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chunk it down&lt;br /&gt;I didn't try to do the whole drive in one orderly process. The drive itself told me how to proceed, which parts to do for the biggest immediate impact, “in case I didn't finish.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Know when to quit. &lt;br /&gt;I started to work on those tracks. I started to clean along the street-side edge. That's nuts! I told myself. This is not a work of art. This is a functional driveway. The drive is not perfectly clear and bare, but I can drive up it with no problem. It works.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* * * * *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think of my big writing projects, and how similar they are to shoveling the driveway. Any big project is. I never know exactly where to start, even if it's like a dozen others I've done. “Just start somewhere. Write something. And “let the project or story tell you how it wants to be written.” ”Strange as it sounds, that always works. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I chunk them into sections, break them down. I write a paragraph, write a page. I do what I can today, and take breaks when I tire. The vision of the end result always pulls me forward, no matter how huge the project. Most importantly, I know that no project is ever perfect. I have to know when I've given my best and it's time to move on.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The drive is cleared, scrape by scrape. &lt;br /&gt;The book is written word by word. &lt;br /&gt;The project will quickly be in shape&lt;br /&gt;If that inner voice is gently heard.&lt;br /&gt;This approach works for me, but it may not be perfect for you. The only right way to manage a creative project whether shoveling a drive, cleaning a closet or writing a book, is the one that works for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Write now: think of a big project you've undertaken. Write a few notes or an essay about the process. How did you go about it? Was it typical or different from other projects? What did you learn from it that will help you in the future? 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The only way characters can be compelling is if the space surrounding them is a character. Space defines the relationship with a character. &lt;br /&gt;Inject something of the characters in the place. Have tension and conflict exist between the person and the space. &lt;br /&gt;While we’re careful not to write a character doing something out of character, the same rule works for place. Don’t write something out of character for the place. 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rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-5843272364048912663</id><published>2010-10-15T10:46:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-10-15T10:47:40.786-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Net Junkies Anonymous'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Time to Get off the Net?'/><title type='text'>Overwhelmed by images</title><content type='html'>Overwhelmed by images&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;October 15, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yesterday, Nancy Bell Scott of Old Orchard Beach, Maine wrote, "Lately my brain has been overwhelmed by the many thousands (millions?) of images online. An evening can be spent wandering around cyberspace and enjoying it immensely. But very often, the next morning, entering my studio, I'm utterly paralyzed. My husband has noticed what online exposure does to me, and he thinks it's making me nuts. He's a very perceptive, creative person. I'd love to hear your own (and others') thoughts on this and what to do about it."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;FYI, we've put some of Nancy's paintings at the top of the current clickback.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks, Nancy. It's all about procrastination. Hanging out at a cabaret or hanging on to a computer, artists will do anything to avoid going to their room and going to work. Fear of failure and fear of success are just two of the issues that lead to escapism. With the quality and variety on the Internet, today's painters face a hazard like never before. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Net Junkies are the new alcoholics. Artists who allow the Internet to take them where it will, throw in the towel of creative individualism. Too much non-directed exposure to the work of others humbles, discourages, and sullies our own best efforts. The result, if you stay at it long enough, can be rudderless dilettantism. But there's help. It's called NJA.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Net Junkies Anonymous knows that artists procrastinate in the name of research. They get hooked. The solution is to make research a process-driven activity. It starts with the easel station. Attend to your easel before you go near your machine. As you think of your needs, put notes beside your easel. Let your work tell you what you need to study. When the time is appropriate, take your list to the machine. Be efficient and cagey. The Internet is a great slave but also a cunning master. You have to go there on your own terms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Straight out of AA, here are a few steps to recovery:&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Make an inventory of time spent at your various stations.&lt;br /&gt;Admit that you may be doing harm to yourself.&lt;br /&gt;Carry your spiritual awakening to other Net Junkies.&lt;br /&gt;Use the greater power of art itself to restore your sanity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: &lt;br /&gt;"What good is sitting alone in your room?&lt;br /&gt;Come hear the music play.&lt;br /&gt;Life is a Cabaret, old chum,&lt;br /&gt;Come to the Cabaret." (John Kander and Fred Ebb, from Cabaret)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: One warm Thursday evening last August, my neighbor George held a party at his house because his Facebook friends had reached 10,000. Only a few actual people were there; the rest, I think, were virtual. For a while we looked at fractals online and drank lemonade. George has a couple of nice Rottweilers, Sally and Betty, with whom I like to chat, but that night I had to get back to the studio computer to see if my Twice-Weekly Letter went out okay.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-5843272364048912663?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/5843272364048912663/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=5843272364048912663&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5843272364048912663'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5843272364048912663'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/10/overwhelmed-by-images.html' title='Overwhelmed by images'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-537793592540756201</id><published>2010-10-11T21:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-10-11T21:11:59.706-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Audacity'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn on "The Timid Test System"</title><content type='html'>The Timid Test System&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We've talked a few times about audacity, which is a totally good thing unless you don't know what you're doing. Think of a surgeon giving someone an artificial hip with a load of audacity and no knowledge. It smarts, and besides, it causes you to walk funny. And then there's the system of "commit and correct," which is golden when you have something to commit to. Now here's another: TTS--the "Timid Test System."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you're sitting back with a glass, looking at a work in progress, you're asking, "What could be?" With time and a curious mind, a few ideas pop up. This is when you need to go up to the canvas and lightly touch in your possible maneuvers. Having put something in, however meekly, gives an idea of just how great something might be later. Toward the final stage of the painting, you can put it in with audacity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The "What could be?" question is a personal one. What you ask is your own business and the follow-up is in your own sweet time. It's your ability to make choices that leads to effective, professional and unique work. It goes like this: "In that area, in that place, I wonder what it would look like......&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;if that light over there really dazzled?&lt;br /&gt;if there were an extreme gradation?&lt;br /&gt;if darks were really punched in?&lt;br /&gt;if that colour were rethought and sophisticated?&lt;br /&gt;if that colour were intensified or changed?&lt;br /&gt;if curves took precedent over straights?&lt;br /&gt;if this were made to line up with that?&lt;br /&gt;if there were a further element of depth added? &lt;br /&gt;if that place could be better formed?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few years ago, just below the parking lot at Moraine Lake in the Canadian Rockies, I was painting and scratching my head. A couple in a Lincoln with Utah plates pulled up, and, after watching me from the car for a few minutes, got out and came closer. "Very much in the style of Robert Genn. Did you know him?" said the man. I told him I did a bit and that I thought Robert was probably still alive. I asked the couple if they thought my style might be a little more timid than Robert's. "Yes," he said, "yours is really nice, really good, but he had a lot of verve and energy in his, don't you think?" I told them that like Robert I often put my verve and energy in later on. The couple watched me for a minute or so, then wandered down the beach. "Keep at it," said the woman as they left.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "Start with a whisk and end with a broom." (John Singer Sargent)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: Creativity means thinking on your feet, making adjustments and sorties as you go along, advancing commitment as well as erasure. Unless you express your wishes, however modestly or timidly, you may never know your power. Your general overall theme may be audacious, even simply audacious, but it is the final, well-planned flourishes that will help your work to fly.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-537793592540756201?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/537793592540756201/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=537793592540756201&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/537793592540756201'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/537793592540756201'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/10/robert-genn-on-timid-test-system.html' title='Robert Genn on &quot;The Timid Test System&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7135872981251447173</id><published>2010-09-14T15:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-14T15:36:10.488-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Creativity and the 'Chalice of Golden Light' Process</title><content type='html'>&lt;object style="background-image:url(http://i3.ytimg.com/vi/fgqE67i5Ulk/hqdefault.jpg)"  width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/fgqE67i5Ulk?fs=1&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/fgqE67i5Ulk?fs=1&amp;amp;hl=en_US" width="425" height="344" allowScriptAccess="never" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7135872981251447173?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7135872981251447173/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7135872981251447173&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7135872981251447173'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7135872981251447173'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/09/creativity-and-chalice-of-golden-light.html' title='Creativity and the &apos;Chalice of Golden Light&apos; 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  &lt;br /&gt;--------------------------------------------------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;Q &amp; A About Keeping a Journal &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted: 15 Aug 2010 11:02 AM PDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Journaling is one of the most intensely personal activities you can indulge in and one of the most powerful self-care ones, plus it's a gold mine of material for memoirists. Because it is so personal, there is no right way to do it, but many beginners still have questions. Below are a few of the most common.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do I have to write by hand?&lt;br /&gt;No. There is some evidence that writing by hand slows your thinking to an orderly pace, giving meditative-like benefits, but the edge is slight. If you are able to catch the gush of your thoughts better on a keyboard, go for it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How should I choose a journal?&lt;br /&gt;It doesn’t matter if you use a hand-bound volume covered in Italian leather, a composition book from the Dollar Store, a folder full of loose paper, software like LifeJournal. or a basic text editor. What does matter is that you choose something you feel comfortable with, and then use it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When is the best time to write?&lt;br /&gt;Many people prefer to write first thing in the morning, but that doesn’t work for everyone. Write when you can — during coffee or lunch breaks at work, on the bus, after dinner ... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How often should I write?​&lt;br /&gt;To get the most meaningful results, you should write at least several times a week. In her multi-million copy best-seller The Artist’s Way, Julia Cameron advises writing three pages, first thing, every day, and millions of people around the world follow this advise. She does not specify page size. If you skip a day or few for whatever reason, Just pick it back up and keep going as soon as you can. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How much time should I spend?&lt;br /&gt;As stated above, Julia recommends three pages. That may take ten minutes or an hour. Write for as long as you feel the urge and have the time. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What should I write about?&lt;br /&gt;Anything at all. You can keep a log of the weather, record your comings and goings, rant and rave. You can keep a gratitude journal. One key to using it for enhanced health and enlightenment is to focus on feelings, emotions and reactions. The more you get your inner thoughts on paper, the more self-aware you become, the more alternate perspectives you’ll find, and the more stress you are likely to relieve. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Should I share my journal?&lt;br /&gt;That’s a personal choice. If you think others might read it, you’ll filter what you write. You’ll gain the most insight if you keep it private. Hide it or keep it elsewhere if you don’t trust people you live with. Then always write the Truth as you know it, and watch that Truth transform. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What other tips should I know?&lt;br /&gt;Two key questions have generated huge pay-offs of insight for me: “Is this true?” and “What can I learn from this?” After I write one of those questions on the page, I just write down the answer without serious thought. Writing dialogue with people from the past — or even imaginary people — is also powerful for surfacing hidden thoughts and wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another tip is to write as fast as you can without concern for punctuation, grammar or even making sense. Just get it on the page and don't let your inner critic stop you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do I need lists of topics to write about?&lt;br /&gt;No. But using them can seed some amazing essay material.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What if I lapse?&lt;br /&gt;My advice about writing in your journal is the same as writing life stories: Anything you write, anything at all, is better than writing nothing. Even if it is just a few paragraphs a couple of times a year. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where can I find more information?&lt;br /&gt;My favorite websites about journaling:&lt;br /&gt;     International Association for Journal Writing&lt;br /&gt;     Writing Through Life&lt;br /&gt;     Center for Journal Therapy &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My favorite books about journaling:&lt;br /&gt;     One to One, Christina Baldwin&lt;br /&gt;     Journal to the Self, Kathleen Adams. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Write Now: if you don’t have a journal, find some paper or open a new file and start one. If you do have one. pull it out and write an entry.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-942637529069897036?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/942637529069897036/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=942637529069897036&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/942637529069897036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/942637529069897036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/08/sharon-lippincott-discusses-journaling.html' title='Sharon Lippincott Discusses Journaling'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-9178169483547403181</id><published>2010-08-15T12:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-15T12:14:09.598-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Great Writing Quotes'/><title type='text'>GREAT QUOTES ON WRITING</title><content type='html'>GREAT QUOTES ON WRITING &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I try to leave out the parts that people skip. ~Elmore Leonard&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When something can be read without effort, great effort has gone into its writing. ~Enrique Jardiel Poncela&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not a very good writer, but I'm an excellent rewriter. ~James Michener&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The beautiful part of writing is that you don’t have to get it right the first time, unlike, say, a brain surgeon. ~ Michael Crichton&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The time to begin writing an article is when you have finished it to your satisfaction. By that time you begin to clearly and logically perceive what it is you really want to say. ~Mark Twain&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The wastebasket is a writer's best friend. ~Isaac Bashevis Singer&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't tell me the moon is shining; show me the glint of light on broken glass. ~Anton Chekhov&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Easy reading is damn hard writing. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing is turning one’s worst moments into money. ~ J.P. Donleavy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My first draft is not even recognizable by the time I get to the last draft. I change everything. I consider myself at Square Zero when I finish the first draft. It’s almost like I use that draft to think through my plot. My hard copy of each draft will be dripping with ink by the time I finish, and I’ll do that several times. ~ Terri Blackstock&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing is Rewriting. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amateurs fall in love with every word they write. ~ William Bernhardt&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Proofread carefully to see if you any words out. ~Author Unknown&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep working. Don’t wait for inspiration. Work inspires inspiration. Keep working. ~ Michael Crichton&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love writing. I love the swirl and swing of words as they tangle with human emotions. ~James Michener&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested. ~ Francis Bacon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A professional writer is an amateur who didn't quit. ~ Richard Bach&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing is the only thing that, when I do it, I don't feel I should be doing something else. ~ Gloria Steinem&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I always do the first line well, but I have trouble doing the others. ~ Moliere&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can't wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club. - Jack London&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and open a vein. ~ Walter "Red" Smith&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When asked, "How do you write?" I invariably answer, "One word at a time." ~ Stephen King&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you sell a man a book, you don't sell him 12 ounces of paper and ink and glue; you sell him a whole new life. ~ Emerson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Manuscript: something submitted in haste and returned at leisure. ~ Oliver Herford&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I write fiction because it's a way of making statements I can disown. ~ Tom Stoppard&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You must stay drunk on writing so reality cannot destroy you. ~ Ray Bradbury&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I stop, the rest of the day is posthumous. I'm only really alive when I'm writing.~ Tennessee Williams&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good writing is supposed to evoke sensation in the reader—not the fact that it is raining, but the feeling of being rained upon. ~ E.L. Doctorow&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing a book is an adventure: it begins as an amusement, then it becomes a mistress, then a master and finally a tyrant. ~Winston Churchill &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Words - so innocent and powerless as they are, as standing in a dictionary, how potent for good and evil they become in the hands of one who knows how to combine them. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me, a page of good prose is where one hears the rain [and] the noise of battle. ~John Cheever&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do not put statements in the negative form.&lt;br /&gt;And don't start sentences with a conjunction.&lt;br /&gt;If you reread your work, you will find on rereading that a &lt;br /&gt;great deal of repetition can be avoided by rereading and editing.&lt;br /&gt;Never use a long word when a diminutive one will do.&lt;br /&gt;Unqualified superlatives are the worst of all.&lt;br /&gt;De-accession euphemisms.&lt;br /&gt;If any word is improper at the end of a sentence, a linking verb is.&lt;br /&gt;Avoid trendy locutions that sound flaky.&lt;br /&gt;Last, but not least, avoid cliches like the plague.&lt;br /&gt;~William Safire, "Great Rules of Writing"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing is easy: All you do is sit staring at a blank sheet of paper until drops of blood form on your forehead. ~Gene Fowler&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every writer I know has trouble writing. ~Joseph Heller&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you don't have time to read, you don't have the time (or the tools) to write. Simple as that. ~ Stephen King&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing comes more easily if you have something to say. ~Sholem Asch&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All my best thoughts were stolen by the ancients. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to get rich from writing, write the sort of thing that's read by persons who move their lips when they're reading to themselves. ~Don Marquis&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are men that will make you books, and turn them loose into the world, with as much dispatch as they would do a dish of fritters. ~Miguel de Cervantes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A perfectly healthy sentence, it is true, is extremely rare. For the most part we miss the hue and fragrance of the thought; as if we could be satisfied with the dews of the morning or evening without their colors, or the heavens without their azure. ~Henry David Thoreau&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You write to communicate to the hearts and minds of others what's burning inside you. And we edit to let the fire show through the smoke. ~Arthur Polotnik&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to be a writer, you must do two things above all others: read a lot and write a lot. ~ Stephen King&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pen names are masks that allow us to unmask ourselves. ~C. Astrid Weber&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A good style should show no signs of effort. What is written should seem a happy accident. ~W. Somerset Maugham, Summing Up, 1938&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is no way of writing well and also of writing easily. ~ Anthony Trollope&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If I'm trying to sleep, the ideas won't stop. If I'm trying to write, there appears a barren nothingness. ~Carrie Latet&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many books require no thought from those who read them, and for a very simple reason. They made no such demand upon those who wrote them. ~Charles Caleb Colton&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How vain it is to sit down to write when you have not stood up to live. ~Henry David Thoreau, Journal, 19 August 1851&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Write your first draft with your heart. Re-write with your head. ~From the movie Finding Forrester&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Coach Sherrie says: I am thinking about my revisions. I have written approx. 3 drafts and I know I have a great story; I just am not sure HOW to tell it. My coach is suggesting that I meditate to get in touch with the finished story and the main characters and let THEM TELL ME how the story should be told. &lt;br /&gt;I will keep you up-to-date on how it goes.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-9178169483547403181?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/9178169483547403181/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=9178169483547403181&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9178169483547403181'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9178169483547403181'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/08/great-quotes-on-writing.html' title='GREAT QUOTES ON WRITING'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2132774694140065644</id><published>2010-07-27T12:48:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-27T12:49:36.886-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Do More Than ONE Creative Project At a Time'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn says "Leave Your Lines In the Water"</title><content type='html'>Esoterica: By spreading yourself over several jobs at once, you amortize your creativity and give each work the advantage of contemplation over time. Amazingly, when you pick up a painting that has been abandoned for a day or two, you can often cut right to its problems and solve at least some of its weaknesses. This is also a good time to ask what more might add interest or depth to a composition. No matter how difficult the puzzle, you still have a fair degree of control. You need to keep your options open, ask "What could be?" and leave your lines in the water.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2132774694140065644?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2132774694140065644/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2132774694140065644&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2132774694140065644'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2132774694140065644'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/robert-genn-says-leave-your-lines-in.html' title='Robert Genn says &quot;Leave Your Lines In the Water&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-4670658344579234598</id><published>2010-07-23T20:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-23T20:36:22.162-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finding Your Voice'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn on "Finding Your Voice"</title><content type='html'>July 23, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recently, Judith Meeks of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, wrote, "I'll soon be chairing a panel discussion called 'Finding Your Voice.' In your understanding, how do we translate our life experiences into our paintings and express who we really are? We may have good work habits, but how do we become clear about what we want to say? And how much can be done with a conscious plan?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks, Judith. This is one of those sticky head-scratchers that can cause the loss of sleep. First off, and contrary to what I've said before, plans can actually derail the voice-finding process. Further, you have to know what you mean by "voice." Voice in style is different than voice in cause. Ideally, style develops over time. Cause is based on attitude and issue. With growth and development, causes change. A predetermined voice shackles creativity. To find your very own voice, I think you need to have a few things going for you:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need to make stuff. Artists who put in regular working hours find their voice. Work itself generates clarity and direction. It's like invention--one thing leads to another. One must only lurk for voice. Unfortunately, along the way, most drop the ball. Like the dilettante inventor of the soft drink "6-up," they just don't stick around long enough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need hunger. It can be the hunger for knowledge or for self-knowledge. It can be the desire to find an antidote for some injustice or human miscalculation. Perhaps you need some inexplicable, deep-seated compulsion to keep moving forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need curiosity. Wondering how things will turn out is more powerful than having a pretty good idea beforehand. Wondering if you can do it gives you reason to try. Curiosity is the main juice of "ego-force" that keeps you keeping on. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need joy. You need to feel joy in yourself and you need to feel you're giving it to others. As Winston Churchill said, "You may do as you like, but you also have to like what you do." A disliked job is soon abandoned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm writing you from a remote anchorage off Grenville Channel on the West Coast of British Columbia. I'm thinking human nature is a mighty puzzle. Every time I go onto one of these islands looking for something to paint, I ask myself the old "What's my voice?" question. One thing for sure, if I go ashore knowing what my voice is, it will be a weak squawk when I get to the spot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "Why this hunger to write--I always ask myself--if not the longing to discover what I believe? The pen divines my thoughts." (David Conover in One Man's Island.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: "What's my voice?" has to be asked by each individual artist. Committee-free, the artist needs to develop her voice as if on an island. To be a voice is to be a different voice, set apart, unique. How to find it? Go to your island, put in long hours, fall in love with process--your voice will come out of your work.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-4670658344579234598?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/4670658344579234598/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=4670658344579234598&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4670658344579234598'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/4670658344579234598'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/robert-genn-on-finding-your-voice.html' title='Robert Genn on &quot;Finding Your Voice&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2159846503562572728</id><published>2010-07-22T16:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-22T16:33:03.777-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Writing Strong (Yet Flawed) Characters'/><title type='text'>Creating Mini Bios for Your Characters</title><content type='html'>Creating Mini Bios for your Characters.I found this in some website, I cannot recall which one, but I find it helpful and insightful&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. WRITE MINI BIOS FOR YOUR DREAM CAST&lt;br /&gt;Make a list of characters you either might want to write about or have begun to write about. Three or four will do. Fill out a mini bio for each, listing the basics: age, name, marital status, family ties, occupation, appearance and general thoughts and feelings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now study each mini-bio, imagining that character as the star of your story. He will receive the most attention from you and the readers, the highest word count, the emotional arc (if there is one) and the climactic scene. How does the story change when you recast it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1- What is this character's name?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2- What is her age and birth date?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3- What does she look like?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4- What is her astrological sign and does it matter to her?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5- What are her parents like?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6- Does she have brothers and sisters?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7- How important are her family relationships?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8- Where does she live ? (Urban? Small town? Rural?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9 - Does she live in an apartment? House? What type or style?&lt;br /&gt;Did she chose the residence and why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10- Does she live by herself? With others?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11- What are her important material possessions?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12- What are her hobbies?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;13- What is her education?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;14- What is her job? How does she feel about her work?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15- Is this a long-term career or just a job?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;16- What does she want to be doing in 20 years?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;17- If she has unexpected time free time, what does she do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;18- How does she feel about the opposite sex?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;19- What is her relationship status? Single? Divorced?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;20- Does she have children?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;21- Who is her best friend? Why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;22- Who is her worst enemy? Why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;23- How would a former date describe her?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;24- What one event has made her who she is today?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;25- How does that turning point in the character's life relate to the other main character in the story?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;26- What trait does she have that she wants to keep secret from the world?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;27- What does she like most about her life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;28- What does she dislike most about her life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;29- What would this character die to defend?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;30- What are her most likable and unlikable traits?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;31- As the story begins what is her main problem?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;32- What does she do that makes this problem worse?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;33- Who is this person's love interest?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;34- What qualities in the other main character are most attractive to this person?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;35- What is her ideal happy ending?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;36- What reaction do you want readers to have to her?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;37- Why should the reader care about her?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2159846503562572728?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2159846503562572728/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2159846503562572728&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2159846503562572728'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2159846503562572728'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/creating-mini-bios-for-your-characters.html' title='Creating Mini Bios for Your Characters'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-2521288915866889387</id><published>2010-07-20T12:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-20T12:42:52.949-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='First Person? Third Person?'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Point of View'/><title type='text'>JAMES V. SMITH JR. on Choosing Point of View</title><content type='html'>What Point of View Should You Use in Your Novel? &lt;br /&gt;(First Person? Third Person?)&lt;br /&gt;July 20, 2010&lt;br /&gt;by  James V. Smith Jr.&lt;br /&gt;There are several different points of view available to you when writing your novel (first person, second person, third person). Here are the advantages and disadvantages to each.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are, obviously, several different points of view available to you—and, less obviously, several advantages and disadvantages to each.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First person&lt;br /&gt;First person POV refers to the I, we, me, my, mine, us narrator, often the voice of the heroic character or a constant companion of the heroic character.&lt;br /&gt;There I was, minding my own beeswax when she up and kissed me. I near passed out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ADVANTAGES OF THIS POV: &lt;br /&gt;    •    It feels natural to most writers because we live in an I world. &lt;br /&gt;    •    You have to deal with only one mind: the narrator’s.&lt;br /&gt;    •    You can create a distinctive internal voice.&lt;br /&gt;    •    You can add an element of craft by creating a narrator who is not entirely reliable. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;DISADVANTAGES OF THIS POV:&lt;br /&gt;    •    You are limited to writing about what the narrator can see or sense.&lt;br /&gt;    •    The narrator must constantly be on stage or observing the stage.&lt;br /&gt;    •    You can’t go into the minds of other characters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second person&lt;br /&gt;The you narrator, this POV is rarely successful, and even then works best in shorter books. For an example of second person POV, check out Jay McInerney’s Bright Lights, Big City. But know that most publishing professionals advise against using this tricky approach.&lt;br /&gt;You’re just standing there. She comes along and kisses you, and you nearly faint.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ADVANTAGES OF THIS POV:&lt;br /&gt;    •    It gives you the power to be different, even eccentric in the way you can speak to the reader so directly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;DISADVANTAGES OF THIS POV:&lt;br /&gt;    •    It begins to feel quirky, whether you’re reading it or writing it.&lt;br /&gt;    •    It can say to a publishing professional: “I’m a Jay McInerney knockoff. Reject me!”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Third person&lt;br /&gt;The he, she, it, they, them narrator, third person is the most common POV in fiction. It offers a variety of possibilities for limiting omniscience: information that the narrator and reader are privy to in the telling of the story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THIRD PERSON UNLIMITED OMNISCIENCE: In this POV, the author enters the mind of any character to transport readers to any setting or action.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He stood stiff as a fence post, watching her come his way. What did she want? he wondered.&lt;br /&gt;She had decided to kiss him, no matter what. So she did. She could see the effect of her kiss at once. He nearly fell over.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;ADVANTAGES OF THIS POV:&lt;br /&gt;    •    It can enrich your novel with contrasting viewpoints.&lt;br /&gt;    •    Both you and your reader can take a breath of fresh air as you shift from one character’s POV to another’s.&lt;br /&gt;    •    You can broaden the scope of your story as you move between settings and from conflicting points of view.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;DISADVANTAGES OF THIS POV:&lt;br /&gt;    •    You can confuse yourself and the reader unless every voice is distinctive.&lt;br /&gt;    •    You can diffuse the flow of your story by switching the POV too often. (Notice how the last passage about the kiss jolts you from one POV to the other.)&lt;br /&gt;    •    It’s easy to get lazy and begin narrating as the author instead of as one of your characters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THIRD PERSON LIMITED OMNISCIENCE: The author enters the mind of just a few characters, usually one per chapter or scene.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He stood stiff as a fence post, watching her come his way. What did she want? he wondered, as she approached. Then he saw the determination in her face. Good crackers! She was going to kiss him, no matter what. &lt;br /&gt;She did, too, and he nearly fell over.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;ADVANTAGES OF THIS POV:&lt;br /&gt;    •    It has all the advantages of third person unlimited POV.&lt;br /&gt;    •    You can concentrate the story by keeping to major characters’ (and strategic minor characters’) thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;DISADVANTAGES OF THIS POV:&lt;br /&gt;    •    There aren’t any, really; by imposing POV discipline, you minimize the downsides of unlimited omniscience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to get really complex, you can identify three or four times as many POV choices—but these are by far the most common, and will suit most any story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Excerpted from The Writer’s Little Helper © 2006 by JAMES V. SMITH JR., with permission from Writer’s Digest Books.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-2521288915866889387?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/2521288915866889387/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=2521288915866889387&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2521288915866889387'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/2521288915866889387'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/james-v-smith-jr-on-choosing-point-of.html' title='JAMES V. SMITH JR. on Choosing Point of View'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1866732760761688635</id><published>2010-07-13T19:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T19:11:43.074-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Uncertainty'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Incompleteness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Allowing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mujo'/><title type='text'>Robert Genn on "Leaving things incomplete"</title><content type='html'>July 13, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Sherrie,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These days I've been rededicating myself to less overworking and more understatement. In other words, trying to leave my work fresher, even at the expense of being incomplete. I believe it's an idea that a lot of us could profit by. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all know the danger of keeping on going--adding detail or complexity when the idea we started out with is well enough expressed without the fiddling. In our innate human desire for perfection we can forget the hand of the artist, even the struggling hand, and the poetic justice of paucity. These elements have value for the second half of the creative partnership--the eyes of the viewer. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here in Japan it's the principle of "Mujo" (moo-joh). It stems from the ancient Zen concept of transience and uncertainty. A related Japanese word is Mikansei (me-kahn-say-ee) which means "the state of being incomplete." In many ways, the western convention of abstract art fills this bill. In abstraction, you can't always tell exactly what it is you are looking at, and there lies its charm. Mystery builds viewer interest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Japanese are not always prepared to go that far. The suggestion of a waterfall or a few cursory brushstrokes indicating a tree or a flower may suffice to communicate a motif. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's how to put Mujo to work for yourself: Before starting in with the "busyness" of working, stop to think of the simplest and freshest way a passage might be conceived and executed. Very often a move up to a larger brush, together with a careful mixing of the desired colour, and an elegant, well-contemplated stroke or two can carry the day. Leaving a little primer showing through, or a slight error, a slub or a bump--so what. Even an inadvertent dribble-down or an indecisive painterly scrabble gives life where dullness might otherwise prevail.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We sometimes hear the argument that this sort of incompleteness or roughness only appeals to other artists. I don't think so. I find our world to be loaded and cocked with creator wannabees. We artists represent the last bastion of the hand of man. For others to see art in its freshness, failings and incompleteness may be the greater part of our winning hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS: "The power of the mujo principle lies in quietly, serenely letting the viewer participate in the representation." (Boye Lafayette De Mente, from his excellent overview "Elements of Japanese Design")&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: Today I attended a show that included traditional flower arrangement (ikebana). Unlike the western burst of saturated colour and riots of variety--the whole garden in your face--Japanese floral designs tend to be sparse, subtle and simple. A single, tall orchid of an incredible, delicate colour set off by a few dry sticks that twist and struggle alongside, all set, off center, in a delicate and unobtrusive earthen vase. Such is the nature of understatement--an opportunity for the viewer to slow down, take part in, and love.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1866732760761688635?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1866732760761688635/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1866732760761688635&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1866732760761688635'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1866732760761688635'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/robert-genn-on-leaving-things.html' title='Robert Genn on &quot;Leaving things incomplete&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7661761894246330148</id><published>2010-07-11T14:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-11T14:32:40.097-07:00</updated><title type='text'>6 Reasons a Premise Sentence Strengthens Your Story</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://wordplay-kmweiland.blogspot.com/2010/07/6-reasons-premise-sentence-strengthens.html"&gt;6 Reasons a Premise Sentence Strengthens Your Story&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7661761894246330148?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://wordplay-kmweiland.blogspot.com/2010/07/6-reasons-premise-sentence-strengthens.html' title='6 Reasons a Premise Sentence Strengthens Your Story'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7661761894246330148/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7661761894246330148&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7661761894246330148'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7661761894246330148'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/6-reasons-premise-sentence-strengthens.html' title='6 Reasons a Premise Sentence Strengthens Your Story'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7380068106051805923</id><published>2010-07-10T12:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-10T12:11:27.016-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='When to Start Revising'/><title type='text'>Writing and Revising</title><content type='html'>I am still writing my first novel, but this is what I learned in my MFA and from working with coaches:&lt;br /&gt;1) First, just get it out there. Don't worry about mistakes, incongruencies, etc.&lt;br /&gt;2) Revision is what makes a book great, rather than mediocre. Joyce Carol Oates, who has written more than 50 novels, says this. So does Stephen King and most likely, any writer who is worth their weight in gold.&lt;br /&gt;So, just keep writing until the end. You will probably find your story has changed by then, so making revisions before you finish would be a waste of time. Once the 1st draft is done, you can start talking to your characters and asking them what their story is about.&lt;br /&gt;All the best to you,&lt;br /&gt;Sherrie Miranda&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7380068106051805923?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7380068106051805923/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7380068106051805923&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7380068106051805923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7380068106051805923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/writing-and-revising.html' title='Writing and Revising'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7453060017964152201</id><published>2010-07-08T20:12:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-08T20:14:13.365-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Ins and Outs of First-Person POV'/><title type='text'>Jessica Strawser on First-Person POV</title><content type='html'>The Ins and Outs of First-Person POV&lt;br /&gt;July 08, 2010&lt;br /&gt;by  Jessica Strawser&lt;br /&gt;In his session “The Pros and Cons of the First-Person Viewpoint,” blockbuster novelist David Morrell took an intimate look at this hotly debated POV.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;—ThrillerFest 2010 (New York City)&lt;br /&gt;Blockbuster novelist David Morrell’s expert view, the biggest con of writing in first person is that it traps us in our own viewpoint (or our protagonist’s viewpoint). The reader can know only what we know as we come to know it, see only what we see. This can limit the means in which you can tell the story and have it still ring true for your readers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another con: When we select the first person we’re tempted to write as we speak. This can lead to undisciplined writing, potentially yielding rambling or flat, one-dimensional prose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The tradeoff, though, can be authenticity. “There is no such thing as a third-person viewpoint in life,” Morrell explains. Which means you might say first person POV is the most true-to-life perspective from which to tell a story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another pro: First-person narrators can be unreliable narrators (and often the best ones are), leaving what happened open to interpretation—and, in the hands of a skilled writer, this can add amazing depth to a story, as evidenced so expertly in the best known works of Mark Twain and J.D. Salinger. Stories like theirs demand to be told in first person—in fact, Morrell points out they could not be effectively told in any other way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His key takeaway? Write in first-person only if you have a compelling reason to.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7453060017964152201?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7453060017964152201/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7453060017964152201&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7453060017964152201'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7453060017964152201'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/jessica-strawser-on-first-person-pov.html' title='Jessica Strawser on First-Person POV'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-6929789341312627692</id><published>2010-07-08T19:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-08T19:30:48.634-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Psychology of Character Motivation'/><title type='text'>Jessica Strawser on How to Motivate Your Characters</title><content type='html'>Motivate Your Characters Like a Pro&lt;br /&gt;July 08, 2010&lt;br /&gt;by  Jessica Strawser&lt;br /&gt;In his session “The Psychology of Character Motivation,” Edgar-nominated author D.P. Lyle, MD, shared this invaluable exercise for developing your characters’ motivations as your story unfolds.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;—ThrillerFest 2010 (New York City)&lt;br /&gt;Edgar-nominated author D.P. Lyle, MD, advises that to begin developing a character’s motivation, you should first decide where he or she falls—at the beginning of your story—in each of these key spectrums:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tough Guy &lt;–&gt; Whiner&lt;br /&gt;Team Guy &lt;–&gt; Rebel&lt;br /&gt;Artist &lt;–&gt; Dreamer&lt;br /&gt;Smarty &lt;–&gt; Dummy&lt;br /&gt;Blooming Rose &lt;–&gt; Wallflower&lt;br /&gt;Grinder &lt;–&gt; Lazy Dog&lt;br /&gt;Goody &lt;–&gt; Baddy&lt;br /&gt;Believer &lt;–&gt; Doubter&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, look ahead to where you plan for your story to end. Where will your character fall on all of the above spectrums, once the story arc has come to its close? Motivated characters all have one thing in common: They change. Use the above spectrums as a barometer to measure that change—and by the end of the story, the character should fall at the opposite end of most or even all of the above ranges.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lyle illustrates this with his example of what he calls “the perfect thriller:” The Terminator. “It hits on every note in the right order perfectly, from beginning to end,” he says. “It is the greatest character arc maybe in the history of the world.” &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To see why, perform the above exercise, measuring Sarah Connor’s character trajectory on all of the above spectrums. Through the course of Terminator, our protagonist changes from a whiner to a tough guy, from a team player to a rebel, from a dreamer to an artist, from a dummy to a smarty, from a wildflower to a blooming rose, a lazy dog to a grinder, a goody to a baddy (in a manner of speaking) and her belief system is shaken.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, try it with your own characters in your work-in-progress. How can their motivations be stronger?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-6929789341312627692?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/6929789341312627692/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=6929789341312627692&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6929789341312627692'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6929789341312627692'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/jessica-strawser-on-how-to-motivate.html' title='Jessica Strawser on How to Motivate Your Characters'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-510186961457446342</id><published>2010-07-08T17:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-08T17:56:24.850-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='from The Heart and Craft of Life Writing'/><title type='text'>I Don’t Feel Like Journaling Today</title><content type='html'>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;I Don’t Feel Like Journaling Today &lt;br /&gt;by Sharon Lippincott&lt;br /&gt;Posted: 08 Jul 2010 05:54 AM PDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I woke up this morning thinking I wrote a lot yesterday and the day before. I don’t have anything to say today. I can skip it. I don’t have to write everyday. I want to get back to my manuscript. I need to make nametags for the new class today. &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;In short, I itched to do anything but write in my journal. I’ve been lax about journaling lately. It’s so easy when I’m on fire with a new idea or picking at a knot of understanding. Other days it feels in the way. How easy it would be to fall away from the practice, and I don't want that to happen, because I do believe in the power of Practice. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Journaling is a Practice. Natalie Goldberg writes constantly about the importance of Writing Practice and her Roshi validated it as Natalie's Way. He put it on a par, at least for her, with “sitting” (in meditation). I also find that writing focuses and clarifies my mind. I know from experience that journaling often pays its biggest dividends when my thoughts are whirling and passion is high.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So it was today. Within the space of half an hour I came up with two new concepts that laser in on the lake of energy behind an inner dam of blocked vision that I hadn’t realized was there! A list of blog topics spewed out. Ideas for two new classes and books emerged in full focus and clarity. I could write the Table of Contents right now. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, I’m juiced. I’m stoked. The time I invested in journaling will save that much time and more by smoothing the path of other things I do today. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What’s my bottom line here? Usually the days I don’t feel like journaling are the most important days to do it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What did I do to get the pump primed, to make it work? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I sat down, picked up my journal, opened to the next empty page and wrote the date. (I write the date and also the day of the week — if I get mixed up on the date, that helps me untangle later by referring to a calendar, and it occasionally provides valuable context.) &lt;br /&gt;I wrote the obvious: “I don’t feel like writing today.”  &lt;br /&gt;I began writing about what I’d rather be doing. On the second “rather” writer's rush set in. My concept expanded. It was still largely documentary, but new ideas poked up heads like sprouts in spring. Words flowed. &lt;br /&gt;I didn’t get close to any topic that will move my manuscript along, but a small resentment I thought of and captures proved to be a gold mine. Words are flowing, and the energy from focus on other projects will move the manuscript. Yes, this was time well spent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Write now: Open your journal if you have one. If you don’t, open a new file or get a fresh piece of paper, and write for twenty minutes. Just write, about anything that comes to mind. Write about why you don’t feel like writing. Write about a dream project. Write about something that puzzles you. Just keep your finger smoving and see what surprises emerge. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Photo: Lee Coursey&lt;br /&gt;from The Heart and Craft of Life Writing&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-510186961457446342?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/510186961457446342/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=510186961457446342&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/510186961457446342'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/510186961457446342'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/i-dont-feel-like-journaling-today.html' title='I Don’t Feel Like Journaling Today'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7216890731849315107</id><published>2010-07-06T19:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-06T19:44:05.331-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Johnny Cash - Man in Black [A Tribute to Mr. Cash]</title><content type='html'>&lt;object style="background-image:url(http://i4.ytimg.com/vi/CxkdDRF3Zn4/hqdefault.jpg)"  width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/CxkdDRF3Zn4&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/CxkdDRF3Zn4&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1" width="425" height="344" allowScriptAccess="never" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This song does what I want to do with my creativity: make a point in a way that you feel it and never forget it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7216890731849315107?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7216890731849315107/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7216890731849315107&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7216890731849315107'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7216890731849315107'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/johnny-cash-man-in-black-tribute-to-mr.html' title='Johnny Cash - 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Ever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You don't have to sweat over the blank page. You don't have to chew your pencil (or fingernails) to the nub. You don't have to wonder where the next word is coming from.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writer's block is a myth -- not because you won't ever feel stuck but because there's no reason for you ever to stay stuck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you wonder where your next breath is coming from? Unless you suffer from some sort of lung disease, you rarely think about your breath. You assume it will come and it does. One breath and then another...and then another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It comes because you let it, because you don't get in its way, because you're not thinking about it or worrying about it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Words can be like that, too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you trust in your story, in its inherent wisdom, the words always come. The words always come because they're already there. They're there because, in some sense, your story already exists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It exists in the same invisible realm in which your dreams, visions and ideas exist. And if you believe in that existence, if you trust in that existence, if you know deep in your heart that your story is already present and smarter than you are, you will never lack the words your story needs for its expression.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, I use the word "story" in its broadest sense, to encompass all that you would write -- fiction or nonfiction, novel or screenplay, short story or poem. Everything you write, everything you experience, everything you share: It's all story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So how do you get to that place where the story's words flow as effortlessly as your breath?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By writing. By writing without stopping...without stopping for any reason that could give your critical, judgmental, doubtful, cynical or analytical selves any opportunity for input during these initial, creative stages.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I call this nonstop approach "writing on the Muse Stream" because I believe that when we surrender to our Muse, creativity pours through us as effortlessly as water in a free-flowing stream.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's natural to want to edit as we go, to want to stop to correct spelling, punctuation or grammar or to grope for the right word.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't do it. If you can't think of a word, leave a blank space or write xxx. If you don't like a word you’ve written, mark it in some way and move on. Don’t stop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Fine words," I hear you say. "But I'm still stuck."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may be stuck, but you're not blocked. And you certainly haven't lost your creative ability.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can't lose something that's an innate part of you, that's an innate part of everyone. Creativity is as natural as breathing and as long as you're breathing, you can write.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are seven reasons why you might be feeling stuck and some ways to get unstuck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fear&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you discovering things about yourself or your beliefs through your writing that are making you uncomfortable? Is your story carrying you into new, potentially dangerous territory?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fear will always block us from moving forward in our writing, if we let it. The only solution is to keep writing -- through the fear. Past the fear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your fears -- and all your emotions -- can be the most powerful components of your writing. Don't run from them. Write them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Control&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When we assume that we're in charge of the story, that it has to look or sound a specific way, conform to a particular genre or format, or match a certain outcome or expectation, we're bound to get stuck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your story has its own imperative and its own wisdom. You override those at your peril.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Abandon control. Let your story express itself. Let your Muse have its way with you. Let the words spill out of you -- the words your story needs, not the words you think you need.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Write on the Muse Stream, and just keep going. If you find yourself getting stuck, simply repeat your last word or sentence (or any word or sentence). Repeat them over and over and over and over again until you find yourself back in the flow. And you will.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rhythms &amp; Routines&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Human beings like routine. We like breakfast at a certain time and a certain kind of muffin with our Starbucks coffee.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As writers, we often prefer to have set writing times and patterns: writing in a certain room, using a certain pen and sitting down at a certain time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Routines, however, can turn into ruts. What worked yesterday may not work today...or ever again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're feeling stuck, you may well be stuck -- in a pattern that's not working anymore.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Try new rhythms and routines. Break existing patterns.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Go for a walk, do yoga stretches, take a shower or do something else unrelated to writing or to your current project. Drive to a scenic spot and write in the car. Write in the morning instead of the afternoon, longhand instead of on the computer, in a café instead of at home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Find the rhythm and routine that works for you today, and be open to changing it tomorrow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perfectionism&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whether in writing or in life, many of us are addicted to getting it right. Being perfect means we won't be criticized, judged or rejected. A perfect first draft means fewer revisions. Being perfect is, well, just a good thing to be. Isn't it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve got bad news: It will never be perfect. It may be excellent, accomplished, creative, innovative and insightful. But perfect? Not possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's not possible because there's no perfect way to translate the intangible (ideas, thoughts, visions) into words on a page. There's no perfect way to describe a brilliant sunset or profound emotion in a way that guarantees each reader an experience identical to yours.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do your best. But if you're intent on making it perfect, you may find yourself stuck on the same story -- or sentence -- for the rest of your writing life, never growing into something new.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Timing&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recognize that what appears as a block may be a matter of timing. If you've written as deeply into a story as you can and find yourself unable to continue, it may be that you need more life experience (or research) before you're ready to go on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead of calling yourself "blocked," welcome the break -- to do research, to work on a different project or to get on with your life, trusting that you'll know when it's time to get back to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Passion&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're feeling stuck, ask yourself whether the story is one that excites and impassions you, one that fires you up more than anything else you could be writing. Is it the right idea for you right now? Or is it just another good idea that anyone could write.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you've lost the excitement (or never had it) and cannot rekindle your enthusiasm, consider that this may not be the best project for you at this time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lack of passion is a guaranteed recipe for stuckness. Passion, on the other hand, will always fuel your writing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Self-Respect&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Respect yourself and your writing. Respect every draft. Every word.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The more you beat yourself up over your writing, output or creative ability, the more you're inviting the kind of paralysis that feeds writer's block.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Discard judgment and punishing discipline. Cultivate discernment and discipleship. Recognize that every word, draft and emotion is an integral part of your creative journey. Honor all aspects of that journey -- including the painfully uncomfortable ones -- and writer's block will become a myth for you, too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(c) 2009 Mark David Gerson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Adapted from The Voice of the Muse: Answering the Call to Write (LightLines Media, 2008)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Writer's Block" message pad available from TheDailyPlanner.com&lt;br /&gt;Writer's block cartoon by Rusty-Siccors&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted by Mark David Gerson at 4:44 PM   &lt;br /&gt;Labels: control, fear, muse stream, myth, passion, perfectionism, self-respect, surrender, writer's block&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1294978258428866653?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1294978258428866653/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1294978258428866653&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1294978258428866653'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1294978258428866653'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/07/mark-david-gerson-on-myth-of-writers.html' title='Mark David Gerson on &quot;The Myth of Writer&apos;s Block&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-6553712331817759655</id><published>2010-06-29T16:14:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-29T16:14:50.140-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Writer’s Digest - 9 Questions to Ask Your Main Character</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.writersdigest.com/article/9-questions-to-ask-your-main-character/"&gt;Writer’s Digest - 9 Questions to Ask Your Main Character&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-6553712331817759655?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.writersdigest.com/article/9-questions-to-ask-your-main-character/' title='Writer’s Digest - 9 Questions to Ask Your Main Character'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/6553712331817759655/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=6553712331817759655&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6553712331817759655'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/6553712331817759655'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/06/writers-digest-9-questions-to-ask-your.html' title='Writer’s Digest - 9 Questions to Ask Your Main Character'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-3014428143489253591</id><published>2010-06-01T14:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-01T14:05:07.029-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Learn How to Self-Manage Your Gameplan'/><title type='text'>Victoria Lynn Schmidt "4 Tips for Making Time to Write"</title><content type='html'>4 Tips for Making Time to Write&lt;br /&gt;by  Victoria Lynn Schmidt, Ph.D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Learn how to set up a self-management gameplan to write your book with these four time-management tips. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have trouble with it, then tough. That’s right I said it—tough! Too many writers use lack of time as an excuse not to write. When you say you don’t have the time, what you are really saying is, Something else is more important right now than writing.&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;br /&gt;Is that really true for you? Are all these other tasks you’re completing, all of them, more important to you than writing? If so, then stop beating yourself up about not writing and put this book down. Writing has to be a priority for you, at least for the next 30 days. I know you’re probably thinking, “I have to feed my kids and take care of my family! How could she say this!” To this I would respond: You absolutely cannot say you don’t have the time unless you write down all of your activities for one week and prove it! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember in the last chapter where I discussed how you might have some new, extenuating circumstance holding you back right now? That is not what we are talking about here. We are talking about the regular routine—your daily, weekly, monthly, and even yearly priorities. We are talking about why you may have been stuck working on one manuscript for several years, never getting to the end. Or better (worse) yet, stuck writing the beginnings of several stories but never finding the time to finish one of them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;True, if your child had an accident and you have a lot more to do right now, that is a different situation but if your father needs daily care for the rest of his life … well, that has become part of your routine now. You have to accept it and find a way to live your life. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many parents with a thousand things on their to-do list find time to write; writing is just number one thousand and one. Seriously. Nora Roberts had a lot on her plate when she started writing—and still does—and yet she’s found the time to pen over a hundred and fifty novels. How does she, or how does any author, take on the daily duties of life and of writing at the same time?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Successful authors manage their time, pure and simple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Get a small notebook and take it everywhere you go. Write down everything you do and how long it took you to do it. In 90 percent of cases, free moments for writing will be found. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP #1: MAKE WRITING THE FIRST THING&lt;br /&gt;The easiest way to create a new habit is to make it one of the first things you do each day. As each new day progresses, you can be pulled in a number of different directions. There are simply too many distractions that come on once the day is set in motion, not to mention the fatigue that can overcome you after lunch. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What you resolve to do first thing—or at least third thing—in the morning, you will do. It is so much easier to sit down and write a page or two and then conduct your daily business than it is to check e-mail, pay bills, return phone calls, wash your hair, wash your dog, and get pulled into half a dozen different tasks, before trying to write a page or two. This is why many people exercise first thing in the morning. Well, for the next 30 days your exercise is writing. Time management is really self-management.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP #2: ADHERE TO THE PARETO PRINCIPLE&lt;br /&gt;Have you heard of the Pareto principle, or the 80-20 rule? It is the principle that 20 percent of your time and effort generates 80 percent of the results, or that 80 percent of what you accomplish is caused by 20 percent of your effort. Most things in life were found to be distributed this way (the distribution of wealth, the number of writers to the percentage of total books sold, etc.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, if 20 percent of your effort causes 80 of your accomplishments, wouldn’t it be great if you focused on that 20 percent of result-getting effort 100 percent of the time? Of course it would! Think of all the free time you would have if you only had to do a fraction, the most effective part, of the daily, too-often-unproductive grind. We all waste time and effort, every single day. We do things that will get us nowhere, things that won’t yield any value in our lives. This stuff takes up 80 percent of our effort, if we let it. (There are numerous books out on this principle if you want more information.) This means that as you embark on your BIAM, you must:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;•drop all that busy work that gets you nowhere;&lt;br /&gt;•drop all the clients who don’t add to your business and do eat into your writing time;&lt;br /&gt;•drop all the negative writer friends who drag you down;&lt;br /&gt;•drop the agent who is holding you back;&lt;br /&gt;•drop all the manuscripts you don’t really love, those you started just because you thought they were marketable;  &lt;br /&gt;•drop all your high expectations—you don’t have to have the cleanest house on the block (one writer was spending six hours every Saturday cleaning her house, and she had no kids or pets!);&lt;br /&gt;•drop whatever you find is within that 80 percent of wasted effort. Focus on that result-getting 20 percent of effort.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you focus on things that don’t truly matter to you, you are working within the 80 percent of effort that won’t get you the 20-percent results you want. How could it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have so much more time available to us now than at any other time in history; it’s just that our thinking is flawed. There was a time when women spent ten hours doing the laundry by hand; now, we just pop it into a machine. Where did those ten hours go? Get a copy of PBS’s The 1900 House and see how people used to live.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Studies show we actually have too much time available to us, and we squander it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We fill our days with meaningless tasks. Read Living the 80/20 Way by Richard Koch (www.the8020principle.com), and your eyes will be opened:"We have never been so free, yet failed to realize the extent of our freedom. We have never had so much time, yet felt we had so little. Modern life bullies us to speed up our lives … but going faster only makes us feel like we’re always behind."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Simplify your life and focus on the 20 percent of activity and effort that gives you 80 percent of happiness and results, at least for 30 days. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t get confused here—this principle is not about being fast but about slowing down and focusing on what is important to you. If you want to go to the country (your goal), you can go via the quick, less scenic route or the longer, more picturesque one. Both routes fit in with the 80-20 principle—if you like to drive fast then take a fast route; if you like to enjoy the scenery then take the scenic route. You create your goal and then get there in the way that uses your skills and interests … your 20 percent. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you force yourself to go via the scenic route when you really love speed, you will be unhappy because you won’t get there fast enough; thus, the scenic route becomes part of your 80 percent of wasted effort. The trick, then, is to know both your “to-do” and “not to-do” list, to know your wants as well as your don’t-wants.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP # 3: KEEP TRACK OF YOUR WRITING TIME&lt;br /&gt;Keep track of your writing time every day using the following Writing Time Tracker. Write in the number of hours you spend on each area, for each day, for one project over 30 days. You can also plug in word or page counts in “Totals.”  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The final rows of each week can be customized. When you sit down to write, note the time and when you are done jot down how long you worked in each category. The “Miscellaneous” category is for research, reading, writing exercises, buying materials, and other writing-related tasks. Use the blank rows for other types of non-writing distractions that come up during your set writing time. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP # 4: DON’T ASK FOR TIME&lt;br /&gt;Find the time any way you can and take it. Of course I don’t condone lying or cheating to get the time you need, though some writers have stretched the truth a bit. Dr. Mira Kirshenbaum says: “Don’t ask for time for yourself. If you ask, people can say no. If you just do it, then you’ve done it and you’ve got it. Your being happy is the only change they’ll notice.” &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The point she is making in the quote is that, while writing may be important to you, few people in your life will see it as important. Many will just see it as an unnecessary indulgence. Asking them to help you find time for writing just won’t work. Of course if you had a major circumstance or emergency these same people would give you all the time you needed, so the time is there. They just might not see writing as worthy of it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have to decide writing is worthy of that time, and then just take it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One writer had more than three months of sick and personal leave saved up at his day job. His boss wanted him to use some of it before he lost it. He was afraid to take off, but he did and now has a small but steady writing career in the works.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-3014428143489253591?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/3014428143489253591/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=3014428143489253591&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3014428143489253591'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3014428143489253591'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/06/victoria-lynn-schmidt-4-tips-for-making.html' title='Victoria Lynn Schmidt &quot;4 Tips for Making Time to Write&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-906266087702829342</id><published>2010-06-01T12:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-01T12:43:02.018-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Make A Comfort List'/><title type='text'>Joanne Susi "Work As If It Doesn't Matter"</title><content type='html'>by Joanne Susi&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Work as if it doesn’t matter.” John Gray made this statement in his book How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have.When I first read this, I wondered how I could possibly do that because I care about my work! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day when coaching a client I realized I was so intense on the listening that nothing else around me mattered. This is what he meant! This is being in the moment and not concerned about doing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Being vs. Doing&lt;br /&gt;The concept of being vs. doing can be difficult to grasp. We think about what we want to do, but how do we just “be” as it takes not thinking. Activities that allow us to connect with our hearts and feelings help us learn how to “be."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A helpful tool is making a comfort list, things that bring joy and peace, keeping you “out of your mind!” The list may look like this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listening to music &lt;br /&gt;Walking along the beach &lt;br /&gt;Taking a warm bubble bath &lt;br /&gt;Reading a great book &lt;br /&gt;Listening to wind chimes &lt;br /&gt;Watching candles glow &lt;br /&gt;Listening to the silence &lt;br /&gt; Spending time at a bookstore &lt;br /&gt;Talking with friends &lt;br /&gt;Watching the sunrise &lt;br /&gt;Watching the sunset &lt;br /&gt;Having a massage &lt;br /&gt;Giving a hug &lt;br /&gt;Collecting your favorite things &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The more we allow ourselves time for these comforting activities, the more connected we become with our center, creating a balance within ourselves. Being in the moment is realized as pleasurable.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-906266087702829342?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/906266087702829342/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=906266087702829342&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/906266087702829342'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/906266087702829342'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/06/joanne-susi-work-as-if-it-doesnt-matter.html' title='Joanne Susi &quot;Work As If It Doesn&apos;t Matter&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-7740949560636394635</id><published>2010-06-01T12:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-01T12:24:39.375-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finding the Right Literary Agent'/><title type='text'>Chuck Sambuchino "5 Signs An Agent Is A Good Match"</title><content type='html'>Five Signs a Literary Agent is a Good Match For You&lt;br /&gt;Posted by Chuck Sambuchino&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So you’ve got a great book and you want to get it published. You could try to simply market it, sell it and negotiate it on your own, but many new to the business simply don’t feel comfortable doing that on their own. That means that it’s time to find an agent but you don’t just want any agent, you want the right one. How can you know if a literary agent is really a good fit for you and the kind of work that you produce? Here are a five signs that things will work out between the two of you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;      1. He or she commonly works with books like yours. Finding someone who is actually interested in the kind of work that you’re producing is essential. If you’ve managed to get an agent that commonly works with material in your genre, then you’re on the right track. He or she will have more enthusiasm and know more about what it takes to get your work in the spotlight than someone who doesn’t really focus on the type of work that you do. &lt;br /&gt;      2. He or she pushes you. The best agents shouldn’t just let you be lazy and do what you want. While there should be a balance of power, they should push you to work harder, get more done and actively market your work if you’re not already doing that on your own. There should be a great give and take between the two of you, allowing you to maximize your potential. &lt;br /&gt;      3. He or she is excited about your work. Someone who is not really excited about the things that you’re creating isn’t likely to do too much to make sure that they ever see the light of day. In fact, they may languish on a desk somewhere for months. If your agent seems genuinely enthusiastic about finding a publisher and marketing your book, then you’ve found a keeper. &lt;br /&gt;      4. He or she is there when you need them. If you’re new to the game, you likely have numerous questions about how the whole process works, what you need to do and the kind of deals you should be willing to make. Your agent should be there to help guide you through the process, though hand-holding can’t always be expected. Find an agent who isn’t always mysteriously “out of the office” when you call and you might have a long future of working together. &lt;br /&gt;      5. You actually get along. It might seem pretty basic, but some people assume that because it is a business relationship that they don’t need to actually like their agent. While it isn’t a necessity, this person is someone who is going to be representing your work and who will be tied to it for years to come—it’s much better to have that be someone you actually like and want around rather than someone you merely tolerate.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-7740949560636394635?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/7740949560636394635/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=7740949560636394635&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7740949560636394635'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/7740949560636394635'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/06/chuck-sambuchino-5-signs-agent-is-good.html' title='Chuck Sambuchino &quot;5 Signs An Agent Is A Good Match&quot;'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-3517465613640727806</id><published>2010-06-01T12:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-01T12:19:44.622-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Writing Strong (Yet Flawed) Characters'/><title type='text'>Anne Tyler on Writing Strong Characters</title><content type='html'>Anne Tyler's Tips on Writing Strong (yet Flawed) Characters&lt;br /&gt;by  Jessica Strawser&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With a body of work spanning five decades, a Pulitzer Prize and membership in the Academy of Arts and Letters, Anne Tyler is a testament to the best kind of longevity—and the purity of the written word.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anne Tyler belongs to a disappearing generation of writers, those who came into their own in an era when it was more than enough to—well, to simply write. Intensely protective of her craft, she hasn’t given an in-person interview or participated in a book tour since 1977. In an age where writers are expected to lead double lives as self-promoters to enjoy any semblance of commercial success, Tyler carries on just as she always has, remaining steadfast in her singular devotion to her writing process. And she can get away with it, too, because she’s Anne Tyler—and she’s just that indisputably good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If Tyler’s writing career sounds like a luxury, a lofty dream come to life—penning a well-received book every few years in the quiet of her home in Baltimore, eschewing the media in favor of the companionship of her characters—it’s one she’s earned. Tyler published her first book, If Morning Ever Comes, in 1964, prompting a New York Times reviewer to write, “This is an exceedingly good novel, so mature, so gently wise and so brightly amusing that, if it weren’t printed right there on the jacket, few readers would suspect that Mrs. Tyler was only 22. Some industrious novelists never learn how to write good fiction. Others seem to be born knowing how. Mrs. Tyler is one of these.” Somewhat amusingly, the exceptionally modest Tyler did not agree, and has since said she’d like to disown her first four novels—in her opinion, she began hitting her stride with her fifth book, Celestial Navigation, in 1974.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She released her favorite of her works, Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant, in 1982, and cemented her status as a household name in 1985 with the publication of her 10th book, The Accidental Tourist, which she is still perhaps best known for today. The story—centered around a neurotic writer who makes a living penning guidebooks for travelers who, like himself, want to avoid experiencing anything unfamiliar—affirmed Tyler’s reputation as a clever, charming storyteller. Her follow-up, Breathing Lessons, a simultaneously hilarious and heartbreaking novel that takes place in the span of a single day, won the Pulitzer Prize in 1989. But having learned that talking about her writing was prohibitive to actually doing it, Tyler would not be coaxed back into the public eye. She found she could succeed best as a wife, mother and writer without it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Her books are about families, and the complications therein—marital discourse, sibling rivalry, resentment and, underneath it all, love. Tyler’s eccentric and endearing characters are so intensely real, so thoroughly developed, they come to life on the page—both for her as she writes and for the reader, who suddenly can see a bit of his own mother, father, brother or even self in their blurted-out words, their unspoken impulses, their mistakes and, with any luck, their moments of triumph.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In anticipation of the release of her 18th novel, Noah’s Compass, which hits shelves in January, WD was granted a rare interview with Tyler, now 67, via e-mail—a format to which in recent years she has sporadically consented, deeming it less disruptive. She discusses her latest work, lessons learned through decades of writing, and her literary legacy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;IN AN INTERVIEW AFTER THE 2006 RELEASE OF YOUR LAST NOVEL, DIGGING TO AMERICA, YOU SAID, “I’D LIKE TO WRITE ABOUT A MAN WHO FEELS HE HAS NOTHING MORE TO EXPECT FROM HIS LIFE; BUT IT’S ANYBODY’S GUESS WHAT THE REAL SUBJECT WILL TURN OUT TO BE IN THE END.” IS NOAH’S COMPASS THAT BOOK? HOW DID THE STORY EVOLVE?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Surprisingly, Noah’s Compass did turn out to be exactly that book. That doesn’t always happen. Even though I never base my novels on real events, I do think they often reflect my current stage of life. Noah’s Compass began to take shape when I was in my mid-60s. Like [protagonist] Liam, I have begun to wonder how people live after they have passed all of the major milestones except for dying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;SOME OF YOUR MOST WELL-KNOWN PROTAGONISTS ARE MALE, AS IN NOAH’S COMPASS. HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT WRITING FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had a really good father, and two really good grandfathers, and three really good brothers—far more men in my life than women, in fact. Probably that’s why I don’t think of male characters as being all that foreign to me. The biggest stretch I’ve had to make is reminding myself that men need to shave in the morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOUR STORIES OFTEN DEAL WITH MATTERS OF FAMILY AND COMPLICATED RELATIONSHIPS, AND YET EACH ONE SEEMS FRESH. HOW DO YOU ENSURE EACH BOOK CREATES A UNIQUE WORLD FOR THE READER TO IMMERSE HERSELF INTO? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, thank you, but I always worry that I’m not creating a unique world. With every novel I finish, I think, “Oh, darn, I’ve written the same book all over again.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;HOW MUCH DO YOU CONSIDER YOUR AUDIENCE WHEN YOU WRITE? AS YOU RELEASE A NEW BOOK, DO YOU IMAGINE YOUR READERS TO BE PRIMARILY NEW ONES, OR TO BE “CONSTANT READERS,” AS STEPHEN KING CALLS THEM, WHO HAVE GROWN WITH YOU? OR DO YOU NOT IMAGINE THEM AT ALL?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve learned that it is best not to think about readers while I’m writing. I just try to sink into the world I’m describing. But at the very end, of course, I have to think about readers. I read my final draft pretending I’m someone else, just to make sure that what I’ve written makes sense from outside.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At that point, I seem to picture my readers as brand-new to me. They have the neuter, faceless quality of people in dreams. It comes as a shock later when a real-life reader writes to me and turns out to be a specific human being.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOUR CHARACTERS SEEM SO REAL, IN PART, BECAUSE THEY’RE SO FLAWED. YOU’VE ALSO SAID YOUR CHARACTERS SURPRISE YOU ALL THE TIME. AS YOU WRITE, HOW DO YOU KEEP EVEN THE MOST FLAWED CHARACTERS ENDEARED TO THE READER, RATHER THAN INADVERTENTLY PORTRAYING THEM AS UNLIKABLE?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes I don’t manage to keep them endearing, and if that happens, I ditch them. It takes me two or three years to write a novel. I certainly don’t want to spend all that time living with someone unlikable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOUR BOOKS CAN BE LAUGH-OUT-LOUD FUNNY. IS IT YOUR OWN SENSE OF HUMOR WE’RE READING, OR DOES IT COME FROM SOMEPLACE ELSE ENTIRELY?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m not in the least funny personally. The funny things emerge during that stage that writers always talk about, where the characters take over the story, and more than once something a character has said has made me laugh out loud, because it’s certainly nothing I’d have thought of myself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;AT WHAT POINT IN THE PROCESS DO YOUR TITLES COME TO YOU? HOW MUCH IMPORTANCE DO YOU PLACE ON THEM?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think titles are hugely important, but they don’t always come easily. Several times my editor, Judith Jones, has shot a title down and then I’ve spent ages finding a new one. Only one title—Celestial Navigation—came to me before I’d even written a book for it. At the time I was simply in love with the phrase; I even had a cat named Celestial Navigation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;IN WHAT WAYS DO THE LONGEVITY AND EXPERIENCE OF YOUR CAREER IMPACT THE WRITING YOU’RE DOING TODAY? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If anything, the impact is a negative one. I worry that I’ve done this so many times, pretty soon I’ll start “phoning it in,” as they say. (I love that phrase.) If that happens, I hope I will have enough sense to quit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU SEEM TO VIEW WRITING AS SACRED, AND TO BE PROTECTIVE OF YOUR PROCESS. CAN YOU EXPLAIN WHY YOU FEEL IT’S SO ESSENTIAL FOR IT TO BE SO?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve noticed that whenever I become conscious of the process, the process grinds to a halt. So I try not to talk about it, think about it, write about it—I just do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;AFTER YOU’VE WON A MAJOR AWARD FOR YOUR WRITING—HAVING DESCRIBED YOUR REACTION TO WINNING THE PULITZER AS “FLABBERGASTED”—HOW DOES THAT AFFECT THE EXPERIENCE OF WRITING FUTURE BOOKS? DO YOU EVER FEEL PRESSURED FOR EACH BOOK TO MEASURE UP TO A CERTAIN STANDARD OR EXPECTATION?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Part and parcel of not thinking about the reader is not thinking about a book’s reception in general—the critical opinions or the sales figures. So I am spared that sense of pressure you’re talking about, although I admit that it’s a cowardly approach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THE PUBLISHING INDUSTRY HAS CHANGED DRAMA-TICALLY SINCE YOU RELEASED YOUR FIRST BOOK. WHAT IN YOUR OPINION IS THE MOST POSITIVE CHANGE YOU’VE OBSERVED OR EXPERIENCED? THE MOST UNFORTUNATE?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I honestly have very little knowledge of the publishing industry. I have been extraordinarily fortunate &lt;br /&gt;in having only one publisher in my career, and only one editor, and we have jogged along together without much incident of any sort. I believe I have been in the offices of Alfred A. Knopf only twice in my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THE EXPECTATIONS ARE INCREASING THAT YOUNG WRITERS TODAY DO SO MANY THINGS IN ADDITION TO WRITING—THEY ARE CALLED UPON TO PROMOTE THEMSELVES AND THEIR WORK, TO INTERACT WITH THEIR READERS ONLINE, AND THE LIKE. HOW DO YOU RECOMMEND THEY STAY TRUE TO THE CRAFT OF WRITING WHILE PURSUING SUCCESS IN PUBLISHING?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think it must be very hard. Probably they’re not allowed to say “No,” as writers could in the past. And I’m always sad when new young authors write letters requesting blurbs. If blurbs have to exist (and I don’t believe they do), then it doesn’t seem to me that the writers themselves should be forced to solicit them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU’RE ONE OF ONLY 250 MEMBERS OF THE AMERICAN ACADEMY OF ARTS AND LETTERS. WHAT’S IT LIKE TO BE A PART OF IT?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is, without a doubt, the single honor I am proudest of.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU’VE SAID THAT WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY, YOU’VE ALREADY SAID THROUGH YOUR STORIES. WHEN OTHERS LOOK BACK ON YOUR BODY OF WORK, WHAT DO YOU HOPE THEY HEAR MOST CLEARLY?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s not so much what they hear as what they remember experiencing that I have hopes for. I would love it if readers said, “Oh, yes, I was once an accidental tourist,” or, “I once owned the Homesick Restaurant,” and then recalled that in fact, that hadn’t really happened; they had just intensely imagined its happening. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The whole purpose of my books is to sink into other lives, and I would love it if the readers sank along  with me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THE FIRST NOVEL YOU SUBMITTED DID NOT SELL, AND YOU’VE BEEN QUOTED AS SAYING YOU’D LIKE TO DISOWN YOUR FIRST FOUR PUBLISHED NOVELS. TODAY, ON BOOK NO. 18, HOW DO YOU FEEL YOU’VE GROWN AS A WRITER?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More often now, when I finish writing a book, I feel that it comes close to what I envisioned for it at the outset. It’s not exactly what I envisioned, but it comes closer than my earlier books did. I’m very happy about that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;WHAT DO YOU PLAN TO WRITE NEXT? COULD YOU IMAGINE A DAY WHEN YOU MIGHT RETIRE FROM THE CRAFT?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Asking me that right now is like asking a woman who’s just had a baby when she plans to get pregnant again. I can’t believe I’ll ever write another book. And daily I imagine retiring from the craft. But I’ve been saying that for years. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This article appeared in the July/August issue of Writer's Digest.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-3517465613640727806?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/3517465613640727806/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=3517465613640727806&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3517465613640727806'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/3517465613640727806'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/06/anne-tyler-on-writing-strong-characters.html' title='Anne Tyler on Writing Strong Characters'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-5612956037516707173</id><published>2010-05-30T17:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-30T17:41:06.087-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Heart of Innovation: 100 Awesome Quotes on What It Really Takes To Innovate</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.ideachampions.com/weblogs/archives/2010/05/100_awesome_quo.shtml"&gt;The Heart of Innovation: 100 Awesome Quotes on What It Really Takes To Innovate&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-5612956037516707173?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.ideachampions.com/weblogs/archives/2010/05/100_awesome_quo.shtml' title='The Heart of Innovation: 100 Awesome Quotes on What It Really Takes To Innovate'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/5612956037516707173/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=5612956037516707173&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5612956037516707173'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/5612956037516707173'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/05/heart-of-innovation-100-awesome-quotes.html' title='The Heart of Innovation: 100 Awesome Quotes on What It Really Takes To Innovate'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-1369966565346804797</id><published>2010-05-30T13:15:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-30T13:16:28.633-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='If You So Choose'/><title type='text'>Fresh Morning By Holly Lebowitz Rossi</title><content type='html'>By Holly Lebowitz Rossi, Fresh Morning &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;"If you so choose, the challenges can make you stronger. If you so choose, the disappointments can make you more determined. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you so choose, every mistake can lead to greater understanding and effectiveness. If you so choose, every frustration can help you to be more patient and more persistent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you so choose, even the unexpected setbacks can bring new and positive possibilities. If you so choose, you can find value and fulfillment in every circumstance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you so choose, each day can be filled with even more joy than the one before. If you so choose, even the most seemingly random events can work in your favor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you so choose, you can remain steadily focused no matter what distractions may attempt to throw you off course. If you so choose, you can look back on this day with no regrets.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is filled with an endless variety of circumstances, opportunities and possibilities. If you so choose, you can make the most of it all in this and every moment."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-- Ralph Marston, in a collection of inspiring morning thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Need more morning inspiration?  Read our entire Fresh Morning collection!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read more: http://blog.beliefnet.com/freshliving/2010/05/fresh-morning-waking-up-with-gratitude.html#ixzz0p8KgS6nV&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-1369966565346804797?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/1369966565346804797/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=1369966565346804797&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1369966565346804797'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/1369966565346804797'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/05/fresh-morning-by-holly-lebowitz-rossi.html' title='Fresh Morning By Holly Lebowitz Rossi'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8815884189508457795</id><published>2010-05-11T10:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-11T10:02:56.823-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Let It Out'/><title type='text'>Tears Can Be Good</title><content type='html'>"No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader."  ~ Robert Frost&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert Genn says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Esoterica: I had tears last weekend in Canada's National Gallery. I was by myself in the room where the Group of Seven sketches are exhibited en mass behind glass. I always return to that room when in Ottawa. It's like looking up old friends. Curiously, some of those sketches always seem better than the last time, and some others don't seem as fine as I remembered. This recognition and its incumbent pathos trigger a sense of brotherhood and sisterhood, an understanding of my own shortcomings as well as a feeling of profound aloneness. Of the gentlemen exhibited there, only their strokes remain, and somehow, after all these years, those strokes draw tears.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8815884189508457795?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8815884189508457795/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8815884189508457795&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8815884189508457795'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8815884189508457795'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/05/tears-can-be-good.html' title='Tears Can Be Good'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-8466609204043228904</id><published>2010-05-11T09:16:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-05-11T09:18:46.133-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finish the Novel First'/><title type='text'>Can I Send Out Queries Before My Nove Is Finished?</title><content type='html'>Johnnie writes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I'm currently working on a crime-drama and although I've mapped out exactly what I want to do I'm taking my time with writing, rewriting, and editing. I would like to send out some feelers to see if the idea is attractive to agents, but I'm worried they may ask for the completed novel straight away. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is it ok to send out queries, then follow up with a synopsis and a few chapters with the promise of completing the book? Or do agents not like it when you are still working on a novel as you're in contact with them? Thanks."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I answered:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I thought I was through with my story despite my 5-6 readers telling me I wasn't. So I sent out 30 queries, the one bite I got said send the 1st 10 pages when the ms is "finished and polished." I stopped dead in my tracks. I finally had to accept that I was not done. I have much work to be done and have finally accepted that I will probably have to start over.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bottom line is that you don't know what your story is going to be about until it IS finished. You can map out all you want, but as you write, things change. Your story is not about what you think it is about right now. Sooo, you would be lying if you sent out queries now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All the best to you and all of you writers out there!"&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-8466609204043228904?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/8466609204043228904/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=8466609204043228904&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8466609204043228904'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/8466609204043228904'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/2010/05/can-i-send-out-queries-before-my-nove.html' title='Can I Send Out Queries Before My Nove Is Finished?'/><author><name>Creativity Coach-Sherrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07084637467459631797</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871742207205135256.post-9119696322482902801</id><published>2010-04-29T16:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-29T16:09:54.234-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kidd Shares Advice on Writing'/><title type='text'>Reflections on Writing by Sue Monk Kidd</title><content type='html'>REFLECTIONS&lt;br /&gt;Thoughts on Writing&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;Ten Most Helpful Things I Could Ever Tell Anyone About Writing&lt;br /&gt;“Do you have any advice for writers?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The magazine interviewer asking me the question was a young freelancer who was working a novel. She had a hopeful look on her face and she half-reminded me of myself when I was setting out to write fiction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I knew about writing was mostly a distillation of a lot of classes, experience, trial and error, reading, luck and life, yet I had benefited enormously from writers who’d laid their gleaned bits of wisdom on the table for me to pick through. Writers like Dorothea Brande and Brenda Ueland, whose ingenious books-- Becoming a Writer and If You Want to Write-- I’d reread so many times the pages had fallen out. My answer to the young woman turned out to be a quickly conceived list of things that had been important to me over the years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Later I decided to write them down, calling them The Ten Most Helpful Things I Could Ever Tell Anyone About Writing. The title is a little exaggerated, but the truth is that everything on the list has been invaluable to me. Some items are specific to the craft of writing, and some are about creativity in general. I’m passing them along with the idea that even if you’re not a writer, you might still rummage through this and find something useful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1.Pay Attention&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I honestly believe that the quality of a writer’s work has a direct correlation to the quality of his or her attention. I have to remind myself all the time to show up in my moments with all my antennae switched on. Sometimes as a writing exercise, I walk around practicing paying attention. I try to really see the thing before me with new eyes, to find a fresh meaning for it, or a unique way to describe it. It helps if I pretend I’m brand new to planet earth, like I just stepped off the space craft. How would a Martian describe an umbrella? A dentist drill? A manatee? Whenever my mind slips out of its habitual way of perceiving life, my writing perks right up; I am given some realization, a little gift from the muses. As the composer John Cage said: “I am trying to be unfamiliar with what I am doing.” That’s it, exactly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2.Ask: What does my character want?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me that is the single most important question to ask when writing a novel. I need my main character to want something very badly, and I need to understand completely and utterly what it is. That’s because this thing, or tangle of things, will become the driving force of the book. Everything will spill out of it-- who the character is, the theme, the conflict, most of the forward momentum of the story. When Lily, my character in The Secret Life of Bees, first appeared to me, I didn’t start writing until I knew what she wanted. One day it hit me. Her mother! She wanted her mother. I began writing then, carried on the momentum of her desire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3.Tap the River&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The way I see it-- the well springs of the creative life are deep inside of us. It’s the place where images are bred, thoughts and feelings are converted into meaning, dreams are choreographed, myths congregate, and the soul talks. Some call it the subconscious, the matrix, or the source of our psyche. I picture it as an underground river, and as far as I’m concerned, the water is composed of genius. I try to dig down to it in a few places and lower my bucket. Which is why I write down most of my dreams. Dreams can be confounding, yes, but occasionally they drop something priceless into my lap. I got the whole ending of The Secret Life of Bees from a dream. I also create a collage for each book. Yes, I tear pictures out of magazines and collect postcards, choosing images that fascinate me, and then I paste them on a board, which becomes a loose story board for my novel. I could go on and on. There are a hundred ways to tap the river.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4.Find the Third Thing&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to creative ideas, people always told me it was best to go with the first thing I thought of. I do see the wisdom in this; undoubtedly there are times when you need to stick with your initial instinct. When it comes to writing, however, I personally find that it’s not the first thing I think of that works magic, but the third. The idea that occurs to me first is usually something meant to jumpstart my imagination. Same with the second thing. I take them as “educational toys” for my imagination to play with. If I can hold these two, often opposing ideas in my head long enough, they inevitably generate a third un-imagined possibility. It might be a creative hybrid of the first two ideas or sometimes a completely new creation. The point is to allow a real evolution of your creative thought.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5.Allow yourself to write badly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can write some really terrible stuff. Every time I begin a book, a chapter, a paragraph, and sometimes even a measly sentence, I find myself temporarily writing badly. What I want you to know is that I give myself full, unqualified permission to do this. I love the freedom of writing badly. Perfectionism kills the spirit of writing faster than anything I know of. It’s best to just stop all that self-conscious struggling for instant excellence and begin. After a while, the bad writing will start to flip over into something much better, possibly even wonderful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6.Loiter&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The word doesn’t have a great reputation. If you look it up, it says: To pass time without working. I believe in working hard. But I also believe there are times when my writing suffers from a lack of loitering. I try to go out to my dock every morning and just sit there, watching the wind blow. I can’t really tell you why this is crucial for my writing, it just is. Maybe it works because the imagination needs that little bit of downtime to browse around, to go off and play with an image without being rushed along. Maybe the mind simply needs a breather, some mindless diversion. I’m told that Einstein got his best ideas not while working, but while shaving, so there must be something to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7.Err on the side of audacity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day it occurred to me that most writers, myself included, erred on the side of being too careful in their writing. I made a pact with myself that I would quit playing it safe when what the story really wanted... what my heart really wanted, was to take a big chance. The best writing requires some daring-- a little literary skydiving. Look at your idea and ask yourself: how can I make this larger? The novelist E. M. Forster once said that a novel should deliver a series of small astonishments. After I finish each chapter, I read it with an eye toward figuring out where I’ve played it safe, where I backed off, where the small astonishment was lost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8.Trust yourself, but listen to others (Certain Others)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a beginning writer, I had to learn to trust my own creative instincts, but at the same time, gather a handful of trusted readers who would tell me the unmitigated truth. I had to learn how to detach enough from my work to listen genuinely to their advice and criticism, to see my work through their eyes. It is a difficult thing to sort out, but with practice I figured out how to stand by my best, most authentic impulses and words, while letting go of or revising the parts of my work that really were wrong, extraneous, unaffecting and plain mediocre. I eventually became ruthless about cutting my work. Sometimes it’s like pruning a tree-- the best work grows from the severed place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9.Hurry slowly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Getting the pace of a story right keeps me up at night. I have a horror of sitting on a plane, next to someone reading my book, and seeing her flip over to see how many pages are left in the chapter. You want a reader so caught up in the spell of a story it would never occur to her to pull herself away and count how many pages she had to read before she could stop. A lot of the time the spell gets broken because the pace has bogged down; three paragraphs about the shape of the oak tree is enough already. Or it’s broken because things are moving so fast the reader doesn’t have time to enter the inner sanctum of the characters’ lives. I like the story to hurry slowly. I want the pace to clip along, but I also want to explore my characters, and render the world they live in with detail and layers of nuance. I think readers start counting pages when these two things get out of balance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10.Find the symbolic core of the book (or let it find you)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By this I mean, see if there isn’t a powerful and compelling image that dwells at the heart of the story, and that functions symbolically, pointing to deeper meanings. A symbolic core in The Secret Life of Bees is the hive-- a community of females organized around a queen. In The Mermaid Chair, the symbolic core is a mermaid saint. I didn’t plan either of these. They more or less seeped out of the characters and the setting. The worst thing would be to force or impose something like this into a story. It has to develop organically, quietly. I’m simply saying you may want to try and notice this. It will find you if you let it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5871742207205135256-9119696322482902801?l=creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://creativitylifecoaching.blogspot.com/feeds/9119696322482902801/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5871742207205135256&amp;postID=9119696322482902801&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9119696322482902801'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5871742207205135256/posts/default/9119696322482902801'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' 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